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Hello everybody.

Ive been on this site for a while now, and I have noticed that TRUST is one of the biggest factors in all of our interactions here. There are thousands of journal entries from Dommes who are angry because a sub chickened out. Or journal entries from subs who were scammed out of their money by a fake. It happens. But then the question becomes, How do I know who is real and who is fake? Or How do I prove to this beautiful dominant woman that Im not fake? The best answer I can come up with is to just be smart or just be as honest and genuine as you can be.

Im not into Findoms. They dont make me angry, if thats your thing then go for it. Im just more into play that is more sensual and I can physically touch the other person. Or she can touch me.

Im not really into pro-Dommes. Again, they dont make me angry, it just doesnt do it for me. If Im paying to be dominated then its just not as much fun because Im still in control. That defeats the purpose of being submissive to me.

To me, the fun part of being submissive is the control a Mistress has over me. A good example is that pain doesnt really turn me on. But if a Mistress orders me to bend over so she can spank me because she feels like it, then that changes things. I like pleasing any dominant woman, but i especially like Dommes who are are more sincere, kind, and appreciate submission as a gift.

What kind of relationship am I looking for? Im not against playing. I would enjoy playing or having a session with any Mistress. But what I really want is a Mistress, switch, andor dominant woman that I can really have a long and happy relationship with. The One you might say. I would prefer to have a vannila relationship that the world sees going out to dinner, going to sporting events or concerts, or anything anybody in any relationship would do. She would probably decide what thosevarious activities would be, of course. But in private I would be Her slave. Ready and willing to do anything and everything to make Her happy.

How would I describe myself? Im pretty laid-back. It takes a lot to make me worry or be stressed out. I also like to laugh and make people laugh. I guess this is all because I believe life isnt about being stressed, its about being happy and enjoying everything you can.

Thanks for reading.