10/5/2017 3:28:40 AM: That moment when you send what you think is a nice message to a person that you would like to chat to only to find that when you hit the send button they have blocked you even though you've never had any contact with the at all ever. It is quite a kicker but everyone has the right to block whoever they want Miss Chameleon.

2/22/2017 3:34:00 AM: There are so many scammers on CS so before you send any money to anyone it is a good idea to put their username into Google and just see if anyone has identified them as a scammer. Do a search on this site too because some genuine people have made lists of users who are just here to take money off people.Signs to look out for:1. Immediate demands for 'tributes', money, Amazon vouchers etc2. Poor quality language in their messages. It will often just be a copy and paste of something they have prepared and not at all in context of the conversation stream.3. Text speak that makes you feel like the person at the other end is illiterate. I really hate this one.4. Constant victim role comments, hinting that they need the money because they are poor or some other sob story.5. Un-dominant, aggressive or defensive language. A real dominant person is self confident and puts you at ease. They play a long game and have no intention of bullying their subs. Like in the early part of any relationship you would expect both parties to be doing their best to win the other over. Domination is not about being aggressive or violent, it is about subtle yet firm control and lead. It may ultimately play out more intensely between top and bottom but that is when boundaries and connections have been established. 6. Fake pictures in their profile. Save their picture to your local disk and then do an image search in Google, it is amazing how well it can identify the person in a picture. Scammers will never use their own picture, instead it will either be some genuine user's image that they have stolen or in many cases it is a good looking model type that they have pulled off the internet. I think the best plan is just not to give anyone any money until you really know them.Good luck people.x

2/13/2012 12:59:49 PM: One for Valentines day - My mistress' eyes are nothing like the sun; Coral is far more red than her lips' red; If snow be white, why then her breasts are dun; If hairs be wires, black wires grow on her head. I have seen roses damask'd, red and white, But no such roses see I in her cheeks; And in some perfumes is there more delight Than in the breath that from my mistress reeks. I love to hear her speak, yet well I know That music hath a far more pleasing sound; I grant I never saw a goddess go; My mistress, when she walks, treads on the ground:And yet, by heaven, I think my love as rareAs any she belied with false compare.

3/14/2011 5:45:04 AM: I love reading profiles from supposed dominants here on CM. The language is so agressive and so not dominant. Here are some of my favourites:  'I'm bored. Bored and too busy to deal with a stupid pathetic wanker like you!!'  'I want to be at work knowing that there are stupid assholes like you hurting and humiliating themselves just to put a smile on my pretty face.' 'The site is full of losers If you are one buzz off'  'IN THE MEANTIME YOU PATHETIC BUNCH OF FUKING RETARDS GET DROOLING OVER MY NEW FOOT WORSHIP WEBSITE'  'Here Piggy Piggy....'  'Atention Worms'  'To all you losers out there..'   I AM NOT NEW TO THIS YOU WORTHLESS PIGGIES   Have another look at BDSM - aggression and insults are not an indicator of power and control.

1/24/2010 2:41:08 PM: What is a submissive? Very good question - One thing I do know is it means very different things to male subs and female subs. Yes I know we mustn't generalise and everyone has their own needs but just read a selection of profiles of dominant women and then read those of submissive women. Actually there are a lot of similarities. The dominant women give a list of demands and the submissive ones also give a list of demands. The dominant women want total obedience and adoration from their subs and the sub women want all sorts of things from the male Doms. Now that just seems weird to me, surely submission is submission whoever does it. How come male and female subs dont behave a little bit the same? Just read some sub female profiles and tell me I am wrong.Doh!