So, something else to write about on here. If all your looking for is something to fuck pass me by. I have a Daddy and it's not my fault if you don't read the whole profile and get to that part. I am sick and tired of people basically assuming that because I have 'submissive' marked on my profile that I will bow down and worship anyone who refers to themselves as a dominant. Just because you feel you fall into that category does not mean that I or any other submissive will bow down to you. No, that does not make me a 'bad submissive' either. From my experiences it makes me smart, safe and sane.

Now a note for those that are Gorian- just because that is your style does not apply to all that you meet. Show respect and talk to those that do not follow that idea-path as you would someone on the street. Let me clarify, 'on the street', I mean the way you would talk to someone you find attractive that has no clue about the life style.

Another thing, just because I call you out on your BS does not mean that you need to get butt hurt and start flaming my inbox. Honestly, I laugh when that happens and it kinda brings out a sadistic side of me that makes me want to keep you going. No, I don't think that's wrong but if your going to have a butt-hurt attack then maybe you should read the profile of the person your messaging. Might save you some hassle.

Okay, seems I keep getting requests for friends on here. I'm going to make it simple. If you do not message me and talk to me first then you will not be added to as a friend.

I saw you hug your purse closer to you in the grocery store line.
But you didn't see me put an extra $10.00 in the collection plate last Sunday.

I saw you pull your child closer when we passed each other on the sidewalk.
But you didn't see me playing Santa at the local mall.

I saw you change your mind about going into the restaurant.
But you didn't see me attending a meeting to raise more money for the hurricane relief.

I saw you roll up your window and shake your head when I drove by.
But you didn't see me driving behind you when you flicked your cigarette butt out the car window.

I saw you frown at me when I smiled at your children.
But you didn 't see me when I took time off from work to run toys to the homeless.

I saw you stare at my long hair.
But you didn't see me and my friends cut ten inches off for Locks of Love.

I saw you roll your eyes at our leather coats and gloves.
But you didn't see me and my brothers donate our old coats and gloves to those that had none.

I saw you look in fright at my tattoos.
But you didn't see me cry as my children where born and have their name written over and in my heart.

I saw you change lanes while rushing off to go somewhere.
But you didn't see me going home to be with my family.

I saw you complain about how loud and noisy our bikes can be.
But you didn't see me when you were changing the CD and drifted into my lane.

I saw you yelling at your kids in the car.
But you didn't see me pat my child's hands, knowing he was safe behind me.

I saw you reading the newspaper or map as you drove down the road.
But you didn't see me squeeze my wife's leg when she told me to take the next turn.

I saw you race down the road in the rain.
But you didn't see me get soaked to the skin so my son could have the car to go on his date.

I saw you run the yellow light just to save a few minutes of time.
But you didn't see me trying to turn right

I saw you cut me off because you needed to be in the lane I was in.
But you didn't see me leave the road.

I saw you waiting impatiently for my friends to pass.
But you didn't see me. I wasn't there.

I saw you go home to your family.
But you didn't see me. Because, I died that day you cut me off.

I WAS JUST A BIKER. A person with friends and a family. But you didn't see me.

Repost this around in hopes that people will understand the biker community.

Just cuz... well... it doesn't just have to apply for bikers. Keep in mind that people are not always what you assume they are.

If your going to message me, you should keep in mind: 

• My role is marked as a submissive, but that does not mean you can walk over me.
• I am a real person
• Don't be a dick to me, and I won't be a bitch to you.
• Respect me, and I'll respect you.
• Telling me to do something will just piss me off.
• I will tell you off if I feel the need to, don't like it then go away.
• I can be helpful to those who seek it or ask about it.
• Over all I am a nice person.
• I am not always online.
• I do have a life outside of the internet.
• I am in a relationship
• I will not tell you about my sex life
• I will not tell you how big my tits are
• I will not tell you more than once I am in a relationship
• I may not be collard but close enough
• I do not have to respond to every message I get.

So, with help from a fellow 'little' I am going to do my first little scene. I can't wait. Playful outfits that are sparkly! Games! Collors! And so many other fun things that we have planned for the night! Oh! Can't forget Trick Or Treating!

I am-

I am a girl, a woman, and a human.

I am not something just to be wanted, touched or chased after.

I am feelings.

I am idea's.

I am a living creature.

I am me.

I am loving.

I am a tease.

I am scared.

I am not always free.

I am submissive, and dominant

But not always one or the other.

I am sweet.

I am funny.

I am bratty.

I am a daughter.
I am a lover.

I am a fighter.

I am me.

I am not a toy.

I am not a doll.

I am not something to be taken for granted.

I am not something to be tossed away.

I am not for just anyone.

I am for the right one.

I am... most of all me.

So, for the past 3 years or so I've been working on loosing weight. I've gone from a size 22 to about a size 10. I've gotten to a point I'm going to have to cut down my belt so it will fit (gotta love cloth). I just had to post because it makes me happy to be getting down to a size that's healthier for me. And allows me to be able to do things I enjoy with out getting worn out so quickly.

From another sight, but I just had to share. hehe

32 things a submissive should never say:

1. Pushing limits does not mean making Master so angry that the vein above His right eye throbs.

2. "Quit it!" "OW, Damnit!" "I’m hiding that toy when You go to
work tomorrow" and cursing a blue streak are not safe words.

3. "Oh my God, where did you get those. They are gorgeous!!!" is not considered boot worship.

4. "Ya want fries with that?" "Want me to drink it for You too?" are not appropriate remarks when Master gives you an elaborate drink order.

5. Flipping your Master off while your hands are cuffed behind your
back is a bad idea. Owners have a way of knowing these things.

6. Putting lube, goop, superglue, ink or any other substance that
will sully the ________ of Master on His toys while setting up for a session is not a good idea.

7. Kicking the toy you hate far under the bed is futile. Master will only secure your wrist cuffs to your ankle cuffs and make you crawl for it....repeatedly.

8. "Bite me." is NEVER an intelligent response to a command.

9. Doing your Beavis and Butthead imitation of "Fire, fire, fire,
fire!" during Master's lecture on fire play safety is considered rude.

10. Responding with "Yes, All Wise, All Knowing, Grand Imperial
Weenie" is not appropriate when Master asks you if you are
comfortable during a bondage scene.

11. Asking to go to the bathroom every five minutes while Master
practices His Japanese rope work on you will try His patience ....quickly.

12. Crossing your eyes and sticking your tongue out while Master is
discussing your punishment is not wise.

13. There is no such thing as slave immunity, fee slave day, or the
PMS defense. The slave jury might not convict you, but the Dom judge will override the verdict. Count on it!

14. Pretending Master's collection of butt plugs are toys and singing the "Weebles Wobble but the won't fall down" song is not a good idea.

15. Repeatedly blowing out each candle Master lights during wax play will get you punished.

16. Checking Master's head for the 666 symbol after a harsh
punishment will only get you more of the same....or worse!

17. "i know You are but what am i?" is not the appropriate response
when called a "raunchy little whore" during humiliation play.

18. Using spreader bars, paddles, or canes for the fireplace is not
a good plan.

19. "Missed me missed me now ya gotta kiss me!" is an unacceptable
remark when Master's flogger slips.

20. When Master pulls out his bullwhip and says He wants to play, He doesn't mean hide-&-seek...He WILL find you eventually.

21. Calling Merry Maids when you are ordered to spruce up the place
is not what your Master had in mind.

22. "Faster faster we need a new Master" is NOT the song to sing
during a scene.

23. "Oh and You think i am?" is an unacceptable response to hearing
your Master say He is not pleased.

24. During a play party is not the time to do your hilarious
imitation of Igor and hunch over, moaning "Yes Master" when ordered
to fetch something.

25. Adding "Sir" or "Master" to "Fuck that!" will not save you.

26. Singing the chorus of "Anything You Can Do I Can Do Better"
under your breath during a session is considered foolhardy.

27. Reciting nursery rhymes during an interrogation scene to crack
your Master up only lasts for so long. Then you will pay....BIG!

28. Arguing whether "Master may not be right, but Master is never
wrong" is Zen or Buddhist philosophy will only get you rewarded with kneeling in the corner of a bed of Lego's "to help you consider the question in quiet contemplation."

29. Asking "Is that as HARD as you can hit???" is considered a cry
for help among submissive suicide prevention workers!

30. Reminding Master you are a switch will not get you out of

trouble for ordering Him around.

31. Rolling your eyes when Sir gives you "That look" is not a good
idea.

and last but least....

32. Even if you are fast enough to close the other bracelet of the
cuffs around his wrist while he's closing the first one on yours,
you probably shouldn't.