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I am usually a rather private person. I do not discuss conquests or proclaim I am some sort of prophetic master. Instead, I would like to think of myself as more a quiet, yet confident individual.

Im an ever evolving individual thus I keep things simple. I am selective in who I associate with. If we talk, please be open minded. I am rather passionate in my beliefs and how I live life.

While I am multifaceted as a dominant. My preferred role is as Daddy. However, that does not preclude me from enjoying a relationship and play outside of the DDlg setting. If you like adventure, youve come to the right place. I enjoy many types of play. I particularly enjoy sensory deprivation play, flogging, bondage and knife play. I am always open to learning new areas of play, so if theres a kink you enjoy, dont be afraid to let me know! Ill learn it! One of the things I am learning about myself, and Ive been at this a long time, is that I am starting to like some of the extreme styles of play. Rougher, more edgy than I had been in the past.

I enjoy the power exchange between a dominant and submissive, regardless of the depth of her submission. In the end, life is meant to be enjoyed. In this role is the manner in which I choose to enjoy it.

I do have pics, for professional reasons, they are not for public display. If you would like to see, ask. I am not married, so I have nothing to hide from that aspect of things.

Lets Play!

Results from bdsmtest.org
100 DaddyMommy
97 Dominant
97 Voyeur
97 Rigger
85 Exhibitionist
65 MasterMistress
62 Primal (Hunter)
61 Experimentalist
58 Owner
53 Non-monogamist
51 Vanilla
46 Ageplayer
37 Brat tamer
36 Degrader
36 Sadist
0 Switch

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12/31/2015 9:34:38 AM
Happy New Year all!

7/6/2015 9:14:09 AM
Primal? I've started seeing these "titles" so to speak. What are they? What's it mean? Does it refer to the primal nature of man? Feral perhaps? Just pondering. Who knows. I guess as the internet makes the lifestyle more accessible, there becomes more of a variety of participants into it.

7/6/2015 8:41:22 AM
Reflecting upon my past writings. My, have I grown! :) Have a great day!

12/6/2009 9:27:21 AM
Ok, so I did it again! I trusted my heart before my brain and got burned. Oh well. I'll learn one day!

7/2/2009 7:31:46 AM
This is my basic Philosophy: Respect. My only rule. However, it is more than just a seven letter word. Read on:

Respect is simple. Before all else, we must respect ourselves. When we get up in the morning and look in the mirror do we respect the person in the reflection looking back at us? If we don't we need to address the reasons why we don't. We shouldn't confuse respect with pride. Often prideful displays mask the lack of respect we have for ourselves. How many fights in school begin by one student's prideful display of being "disrespected". (Personal pet peave, I hate that word!) One who respects themselves is not offended by another's ignorance or lack of self respect. Only then, when we respect ourselves we can respect others.

Respecting others is next subtext in my philosophy. If we respect ourselves we are able to respect those around us. If we respect ourselves we want to treat others in a manner similar we expect to be treated. Self respect includes being conscious of how we present ourselves to others. Do we engage in habits that are socially unacceptable? Are we loud? overbearing? Do we dress with care? Do the actions we take reflect our beliefs and goals? We do not have to like everyone or agree with what they say, but we do need to coexist peacefully with them. Common courtesy and respect help us do this. If we don't like someone we work or go to school with, we use the tools of common courtesy that respect gives us. We can respectfully disagree with someone without attacking that person. We can do this because we respect ourselves.

Finally, if we respect ourselves we will respect our environment. Our respect for others will include respecting their property and the areas we use in common. We don't litter, destroy or vandalize these areas.

 



1/16/2009 8:07:52 PM
Say what you mean, mean what you say. Don't play games, especially with me. I can be unforgiving.

2/4/2008 7:13:48 AM
Communication - recently this has been an issue with me. In order to effectively match up with someone, they need to communicate effectively. They need to state their needs and desires in clear, finite terminology. Why am I finding this to be difficult lately? I understand I am complicated in many aspects, but my needs are simple. For those who are interested, all you need to do is ask. I don't bite, at least not right away!

6/8/2007 8:06:14 PM
ever wonder why someone has to put .."Looking for sexy...." in their profile? why can't the person be someone that is real and not something "sexy"?

Just curious!

4/20/2003 1:42:32 PM
Here again..always learning more and more about myself. Love means letting go when you know that holding on harms the one you love more than setting her free.

4/3/2003 7:20:16 PM

Searching for truth. It's hard to believe that people just cannot be honest about who and what they are. If you are in it for the kink, say so. If you are in this for the life, show it. There's a man who I had a lot of respect for online. I was invited to his house for a party, and this great mystique he personified online was nothing but the acts of a man trying to exhibit control. I was extremely disappointed.

I have always wondered what being a Dom was all about. That weekend I learned. It's about self confidence, self reliance, control both of self and others, and most of all, honesty. I walked away from that weekend stronger, not for having experienced a poorly run event, but seeing clearer who I am.


2/28/2003 10:34:31 PM
Why is it people cannot just be honest with who and what they are? If they want to get laid, get laid and say you want to get laid! However, D/s is not about getting laid! I'm so tired having to explain that the power exchange is not about making you suck my dick, but the trust involved in giving of oneself freely, subjecting yourself to pain to seek pleasure. Surrendering your power to decide, surrendering your heart, surrendering your soul, trusting that one to take you to a new level of self awareness. Before you can be honest with anyone you gotta be honest with yourself first.

2/4/2003 10:10:51 AM

Integrity - Lately integrity has become a big issue. Seems those with little or none find it easier to attack those that have it rather than build their own to match them. It never ceases to amaze me how petty people can be..within the life and from without.

 

Chris


1/18/2003 10:46:37 AM
The journey for a new submissive has begun. Where do I start? Do I really ever start? I think my best course of action would be no action. Sitting back, keeping my eyes open, observing who and what is around me is a more fruitful strategy than saying..HEY LOOK AT ME!! I'M LOOKING FOR A SUBMISSIVE!! (or slave) Time will only tell. Chris

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mamasplaytime
 
 Age: 25
 Woooonsocket, Rhode Island