I am an experienced, sane dominant (NOT "dominate"), and I am preparing to return to the lifestyle after a hiatus of a few years.
I am always glad to make new friends in the lifestyle, and to learn and grow. I have been active in bdsm for over 20 years and it feels as if I am just getting started.
I began in the lifestyle in the late 1980's as a 24/7 slave, and began living as a dominant and slaveowner in the 1990's. I suppose I am a switch, in that I have both polarities, but I prefer the dominant role.
I am in the first few years of my sixth decade. My needs and my abilities have changed from what they were in my forties. Mainly, at this point I seek to make friends, and get used to the company of lifestylers again. I don't care about age (although big age differences make things more complicated), looks, social class. I do care about hearts and minds.
Open to online relationships, but prefer real-life bonds.
Please feel free to say hello, if anything I have said here piques an interest.