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I have been sexually dominant since before I knew there was such a term, and am comfortable with myself and my interests. I require ined consent of those with whom I interact - I am not someone who believes in taking without permission.



Im seeking someone who is reasonably sane, and interested in a real-life relationship. I believe that if were going to connect, it needs to be real, not some role were playing that is defined by Capital Letters and whose name is first. Im not someone who is going to write to you demanding that you KNEEL online.
And while I understand and respect the need for vetting and safety, Im not willing to spend more time than is necessary talking back and forth from behind our profiles. I have found that there are a lot of people who want to chat and email and text, but are unable or unwilling to meet in real life - and what Im looking for is a connection in real life.



I am is someone who is clear in my expectations of the person I am with, and someone who tries to set those expectations based on who you are and what you can handle - not on some idealized image of who it is you should be (because youre a submissive, you should ). I dont engage much in the local BDSM scene - I am much more a private person with regard to my sexuality, and dont feel the need to be a part of a group to be able to explore my own and my partners limits. In a similar vein, I am not someone who pays a great deal of attention to protocol - since each relationship is different, each set of groundrules must also differ, even if only slightly.



If that works for you, and you are interested in getting to know me, get back to me.
3/10/2014 9:22:37 AM

I have seen an increase in the number of women who are interested in photo exchange, and while I do understand the interest, what I do for work requires that I am a bit more discreet (and less gullible) than that.

HOWEVER - I will gladly sit down for a few minutes on skype, so we can each see one another in real time.

 

Also - please be willing to move communication off the site in reasonably short order - I'm not someone who is looking for a texting/email/phone only relationship - I'm interested in seeing if we have any chemistry and in meeting for coffee IRL.

Shelly1010m
 
 Age: 44
 Vero Beach, Florida