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HelloI am a Very Private Person and my employment keeps me from posting photos here... I will gladly share my info and photos one on one with those that I hit it off with.  I just do not share a lot of it publicly... something you want to know???  Just ask.  I am private, but I am very approachable...
I probably should have added this specific clairification to my profile a long time ago. So as they say, better late than never. I consider myself a Daddy-Master. The claification is for you ladies that as soon as you see the word Daddy you automatically think age play, diapers, adult babies, and or incest. So let me spell this out. My Daddy qualities are character based. The good qualities fathers have to teach, train, educate and improve the quality of life for the ones they nurture and guide. I do not want a female in my life that has any need to be diapered or burped and I have no sexual inclinations that involve babies or diapered adults, cribs, or pacifiers, or incest for the sake of incest. I have not or would not have anything sexually involving my child or blood relative. It is a shame I have to even add this disclaimer. But in this day and time and especially online, so many people think they know it all, so they never ask a necessary question. And you only have one chance to make a first impression. So if adding this disclaimer could introduce you to that one person that once would have instantly written you off for that one word... Daddy... It will be worth the effort. I am single and a 24-7 TPE situation is a possibility for someone that seeks that... Maybe a new start and a new life... Have you ever just wanted to disappear and start over fresh???

Friendship is the best place to begin any lasting relationship... friendship builds a solid foundation with which to build more if it's there...  If we accomplish that... and there is more... great... If not we have made a new friendship and hopefully a good friend... I don't know if the one for me will be 18 or 50 something... Age is just a number... so I try to treat all my friends the same and one day the cream will rise to the top...

I am naturally a Daddy... but as time passes I feel the term Master/Daddy has become a more appropriate definition of who I am... I will always have the qualities that I perceive make me a Daddy... but I crave more and more the trust and devotion required to form a true Master/sub-slave relationship... Daddy points you in the right direction... Master makes sure you hold up your end of the agreement...

I understand---my definition of Daddy and yours might be different---in fact mine may be wrong---I self chose that verbage as I thought it best described the gentler end of the dominant range.  I am not a hardcore sadist as i don't get pleasure from hurting people.  I do get pleasure from pleasing people so if someone enjoys some pain I can and I will go there.  In fact I find the discipline part more and more interesting...  If I have a partner that has that interest...
The Daddy part is more because I consider my guidance fatherly. That is honest and nurturing and protective, but also firm and strong with the ability to reinforce the dynamic of who is in charge, and what each ones position in the relationship is.   It is not all about baby girls, role and age play with me as it is with some.  I am not saying that is not possible... it is just not all there is.  The Master side is growing all the time and that is from a need for ones trust and devotion...

I just thought I should explain my definition, as I am sure it differs from others.  I
hate to be written off for the wrong reason or a mixed perception. Also I don't push, especially in the beginning, until each persons role and acceptance of that position is agreed upon... if you do not want to continue, that is fine.  If you would like to continue at some level from friends to whatever??? you let me know.

Please read my journal as well...
11/13/2016 1:50:20 AM
After several years away and only looking for friendships my life is finally returning to a point where I am sincerely searching for that one in a million girl. I am accepting applications to be MY Georgia Peach. Please read my profile and journals and apply with reply.
11/13/2016 1:25:03 AM
I am accepting applications to be MY Georgia Peach. Please read my profile and journals and apply with reply.
5/7/2011 10:33:15 PM

"Submission depends on the individual's ability to align her will with that of the dominant and use his intelligence to fulfill her wishes gracefully and efficiently."

11/30/2010 11:51:22 AM

Have you ever just had someone you talk to regularly on the internet just up and disappear with no warning...  no other way to contact them...  you fear the worst but hope for the best...  Has happened to me now and it's a helpless feeling...  just thought I would vent...

8/25/2009 2:24:54 PM
A young lady wise beyond her years sent me this and I thought it so impressive that I wanted to post it here to share with others...  I could not have defined a friend any better...

Friend is the person who holds your hand when you're scared, helps you fight those who try to take advantage of you, thinks of you at times when you are not there, reminds you of what you have forgotten, helps you put the past behind you but understands when you need to hold on to it a little longer, supports you and builds your confidence,makes time for you, helps you see your mistakes, helps you deal with pressure, makes you smile when you are sad, helps you become a better person; and most important, loves you!
5/9/2008 11:40:43 AM

I did not compose this but it is very accurate...  so thank you to whoever did...  This covers the Daddy aspect of me very well...  I don't have to be a Daddy...  but I do possess these traits...                      

A Daddy Dom is a male type dominant person who has a strong fathering urge, the counter part of the mother hen syndrome I would believe.  However, in D/s, when the Daddy Dom takes a submissive, he treats her rather like a little girl.
 

 

He guides, teaches and offers her what she needs most of all, unconditional love and acceptance.  In my view, a Daddy Dom is the most tender of dominants. 

 

He loves his little girl with an unwavering and passionate love that is timeless.  His little girl is his sunshine, the bright spot in his life.  He wants nothing more than to pull her close and protect her from the cruel world, but knowing he cannot, he guides and teaches her, helping her to be ready for this world.  Then, he waits, knowing she will run to him when she becomes overwhelmed and scared by the harshness of it all.

 

The Daddy Dom always has his little girl's best interest in mind.  He will help her set and reach goals.  He will help her improve herself to be the best she can be, not for him but for herself, and yes, he will even, at times, punish her.  This will no doubt break his heart, but he will always do what's best for her.

 

The Daddy Dom gains as much joy and excitement from his little girl's daily accomplishment as she herself does.  His pride in her shows in the tender, loving way he cares for her.  She has put that twinkle in his eye.

 

The Daddy Dom listens to all her fears and concerns, knowing no matter how silly or childish they may sound to him, to her they are real, and he will help her confront them.  He slays her dragons so to speak, and he is her hero for it.

 

The Daddy Dom hears all her  dreams and desires and all the dirty little secrets and smiles because she is bold enough and loves him enough to open herself up so totally to him, and he kisses her face and holds her close, letting her know she is loved no matter what.  She is his little girl, and he loves her unconditionally.

 

Even if during scening he brings her great pain to release her pleasures (admit it, some like it, so hush now), he will cuddle her and show her the tenderness she craves when she needs it.  When she feels unsure of herself, he will whisper encouraging words for her.  When she feels ugly, he will reassure her how beautiful she is to him.  When she is scared, he will be her safety, her medium against the world if need be.  Even though she is all woman, she is his little girl, and he is her daddy!

KirstieKupcake
 
 Age: 35
 Hampton Roads, North Carolina