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Seriously dominant, and mature emotionally and experientially. Erudite, confident, cultured, articulate, bon vivant. (Modest, too.) Possessed of a firm will and penchant for perseverance.
Single (divorced 8 years) and enjoying all of lifes joys. Always learning, growing, active, vital, and seeking greater inner satisfaction, happiness and serenity of my spirit. I care about the dangerous future of our country and planet. I hold to the precept that not being able to do everything doesnt excuse you from doing something.
Thats a decent one paragraph summary of my personality.
Im seeking a submissive woman for a durable relationship in which discipline, consensual control, sensation play, and exploration of our other mutual BDSM desires is a vital part, If you love s p a n king, then were off to a good match.
I enjoy a girl whos feisty, intelligent, articulate, and spirited - somewhat of a challenge. I delight in combining strictness and firmness with caring and patience nothing pleases me more than a girl who feels at her most protected, cared for, and feminine when shes over my knee, and knowing its just the beginning.
If you have a bit of an Electra complex, thats a plus for both of us.
My desired goal is a long-term relationship monogamous sexually, but maybe with some room for trusted non-sexual outside play. Be single and unencumbered. (I am.) Its okay if youre dating, but you need to be available. I dont want to start off with complications or drama. I want a relationship that is the right thing done the right way from the start.
I genuinely like enjoy a womans company, well beyond the physical part. Its a matter of the mental connection going hand in glove with physical attraction, and knowing what it means to build a really deep trust. I want to lead you - discipline and dominate you - as you need it to have serenity, confidence, and contentedness in the rest of your life. I can edge toward physical sadism (not extreme), but never psychological hurt. Good grammar and spelling count with me, as does your life outside kink.
I am seeking a real life relationship, so if youre online only, thats not interesting for me. That said, Im certainly not rushing into anything, and Id only meet someone after a sufficient time online to feel trust, safety, consent, and mutual interest. In that sense, please be as serious about this as I am.
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I wish that the ladies on this site (I'm only interested in submissive or "bottom-heavy" [not in a physical but a D/s sense] switch females) wouldn't omit their interests. We all have our specific preferences in D/s and BDSM; kink compatibility is important. It's also nice to know other interests, but less so. I feel that I'm writing blind when I don't know what a woman needs and craves (independent concepts). I know it can feel like a catalogue, so also recognize that hitting the highlights is better than a longer list. Alternatively, if you don't like a canned questionnaire, then write it in your profile. I want to know if I'll interest you (and vice versa), in order to write a message of reasonable and articulate substance. |
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The future may well hold for me in store
A return of happiness, forlorn hope?
Perhaps among the crowd one soul ignored
Would understand my soul and would respond? |
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I'm feeling more positive about this site in the last two weeks. |
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I'm becoming convinced it's a losing battle to expect people here to recognize that DOMINATE is the verb, and DOMINANT the adjective. There is no such thing as a "dominate man" only a "dominant man." |
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A play partner recently described me as "intense but sweet." I liked that and I think it fits me just right. |
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Spotting a fake profile on Collarme:
-- They express their weight in kg even though purporting to be American. (Or vice versa.)
-- They list no BDSM preferences in their profile even though they're supposedly seeking EVERYBODY from Dominant Man/Woman to Poly Household. (Not listing BDSM interests isn't the give-away; it's the incongruity with whom they're seeking.)
-- Ethnicity: "Native American." Sure, there are indigenous Americans on the site, but their numbers are few compared to the phonies who claim that heritage.
There are other clues, but these several are quite curious to me.
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A good Master orders, a true Master teaches, and a great Master inspires.
Author unknown (sent to me by a CM friend, thanks c78!) |
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| Age: 29 |
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Maryland |
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