Over the years i have been on this site, the number of women seeking other women has risen dramatically, which gives one pause to wonder, why so many return later, and why so many domes return as broken seeking slave status.  I believe the answer maybe surprise,  most in that women are as misinformed  about the operation of the sexual process as are men, even to the extent, they rarely share their intimate fantasy thoughts with their very best friends, because they have been brain washed by religion and society to believe, all women are just alike, and if you seek or need, something society does not approve, then there is clearly something wrong with you. Its time to tell religion and society to go to hell and revisit the woman you were born to be, without fear, and forget the woman, everyone told you, you had to be.

Much is made on this site about pictures and physical attraction, and "what I want". The number one world wide female attraction is smell, not appearance, so if you can smell a picture, you are truly special. Those who demand pictures, usually follow with a list of "I Want" and never, "I Need". What you want will guarantee failure unless it is totally inclusive of what you need. Needs are something society does not condition women to understand as they are programmed by society and religion to need what they are told, they want. 

Little girls are programmed by society, peers, bulling, abuse, family and religion, from the moment of their first semiconscious thought to be what other tell her she must be, to fit and, and or belong. This programming clashes with the DNA of her birth, and leads her to the only possible conclusion, there must be something wrong with me, why do i feel this way, when all around me say's i should not. 

And thus, fear is born, the quiet kind of fear, she will never admit exists, yet left unchecked, it drives her to behavior not conducive to her long them mental health. Worst of all, the fear infuses her mind, and thereby inhibits the ability to enjoy or express the eroticism needed to maintain good mental health, since few have a clue that the mind controls 90% of orgasmic potential, and consequently, her erotic passion, is never fully set free. 

Solution, peel back the layers of fear, and expose the fearless mind to the light of day, and sit back and wonder at the power of woman, who exists without fear.  

I wonder what it is about a picture, that an tell a stranger that you are the person they need in their life, since none of what you needs can be seen in a picture, but all of what you want certainly can. Makes me wonder, perhaps that is why I see so many people returning to this site over and over again, disappointed their choice did not work out.

Perhaps, if you got to know them first, and found the need connection, the picture would lose its importance.

Women, if you are tired of an unfulfilled sex life, quit faking orgasms, and teach the man you trust how to do it right. Men, it all between her ears, not between her legs if you can get past your own desires and consider hers as well.

Men who are fixated by boobs and women who believe bigger cock contributes to erotic pleasure, each have a fool by the hand. Female orgasm is a complex process that is as much effected by the size of ones tits  or the size of ones cock, as winter is effected by snow. 

I think Collarme changed the name of this site to  "Tit's R US"

Recently, I have noticed a significant increase in the number of women, seeking only female dominants, which gives one pause to ask, why. Certainly the number of hormone/DNA driven women have not increased substantially in the past year so one is left to ponder have that many women become so frustrated with men, have the number of abused women suddenly skyrocketed and do there non hormone driven female to female relationships last in the end.

Certainly, men get more than their fair share of blame because of their selfish attitude regarding me only sex, generally ignoring the needs of their partner once they are satisfied. Women also are to blame because most have been faking orgasms for so long they have no sense of what is real and what is not. And finally, do women to woman relationships work any better for the non hormone women than male to female did.

While there are no studies on this issue, i would be surprised if they did, for the simple reason that women are as knowledgeable as men about how the orgasm process in women actually works, so we have the blind leading the blind in both cases, wow. Women's orgasm's are more complex than mans. man can not have sex unless his mind is totally stimulated, but woman can and usually does, thus is the source of sexual frustration

Women of the world, if u want better sex, tell him or her when it simply does not happen for you and by all means, tell your partner what u really want, no matter how far out u think that might be. Failure to do so, is often a one way ticket to depression, food, alcohol and drug abuse.

I have been on this site now for almost two years and have arrived at an interesting conclusion with respect to the people who use this site. About 60% are here for sex, another 20% are here for money, another 20% here for marriage, 5% seek information and the remaining 5% are real sub submissive's but most of them do not have a clue what they need, only what they want. less than 1% know what they need.