I am only interested in something that is real-life. I have had quite enough of cyber and online training. I am willing to get acquainted with a potential sub online, but it needs to be moving to real life and show evidence of that before long with visits etc. Relocation to my place is fine for the right girl.

I do not post my picture in my profile, but am happy to exchange pics. I do not go in for alot of elaborate contraptions and get ups. 

It seems that what i see in BDSM is alot like what i see in other areas..such as religion. Some people are very showy about their religion on the outside but seem to miss the most important internal aspects. I think i see similar things in the BDSM community.

MY vibe is more head of househild/ disciplinarian/ school principal, which can deepen and intensify with the right girl. I am interested in someone who will do what she is told the first time, without backtalk, and will make herself fully available to me, in private, with eagerness and obedience. A girl who knows who is in charge and wants it that way. I have little tolerance for topping from bottom and things like that and elaborate role-playing. I don't feel it is my place to convince someone that they are submissive. They should know it, and want to explore that with me.