Collarspace

I have been into BDSM as long as I can remember. I started fantasizing about being spanked at a very young age and my desires and needs progressed intensely over the years. Right now I am looking for a dominant, attractive, and confident man with similar interests who will give me punishments (i.e. disciplinary spankings, whippings, paddlings, etc.) in addition to humiliation, degrading, bondage, and more. At this point I am very much hoping to find someone looking for a long-term relationship that incorporates domestic discipline and BDSM. Therefore, it is important to me that we are compatible in some of the vanilla aspects of a relationship as well.

I havebeen in long-term relationships with great men, but in the end I felt like apiece of me was missing if this aspect wasnt there. While I am into the lifestyle and have strong BDSM desires, I am very normal in my everyday life and am relatively private with about my desires. I am educated and goal oriented. I expect the same from my partner - I prefer someone who has their life together, is successful, confident, goal oriented, attractive, and so on. I am not looking for perfection, but I want there to be an attraction. Ultimately, I want to feel taken care of and controlled. If we realized we were a great fit after spending a decent amount of time together, I would be willing leave my current situation (job, etc.) to be with you if necessary. I realize this may be a drastic and premature statement to make, but having the relationship Ive always craved and submitting to someone is very important to me at this point in my life.