**Bio**

Male, 47 years old, tall and stately at 187 centimeters. I possess long blonde hair. My eyes are a mesmerizing mix of green and gray that changes colors depending on my mood and stress levels—from a vibrant green to a serene gray. Weighing at 85 kilograms, I am confident and commanding in both appearance and demeanor. I currently reside in the Netherland, south holland, the hague. My Hobbies include: Airsoft, Metaldetectoring, Work-outs, Basketball, long walks trough nature, Music (metal, gothic, bluegrass) i used to be a musicion myself, had 3 bands, i can play, piano, organ, bass and mouth harmonic and have good vocals, i wrote lyrics for my 3 bands, computers (lately playing with local A.I.'s she wrote this profile for me) and cooking. I am Unemployed living on Healhcare Benefits but trying to get a job in the goverment!. I travel mostly by busses, trains, bicycle and my legs, i been hit by, been in enough accidents involving cars.

**Important Information**

I am currently single and seeking a Submissive or switch female partner between the ages of 21 and 50 who shares my interests in BDSM and alternative lifestyles. As an individual with Asperger's syndrome (autism), I don’t attend clubs or events and prefer intimate settings like nature walks, beaches, forests or the comforts of Home! Also I have a strict no drugs rule! I’ll allow alcohol and/or smoking (I changed my way and am 2,5 years sober), how ever alcohol only during aftercare or on a lazy afternoon, and not too much, smoking is allowed outside; seeks the same lifestyle choices.  Additionally, it is crucial for me to maintain monogamy in my relationships, and I expect the same level of commitment from my partner. Further more I expect Open sharing of feelings, thoughts, disconforts and problems, as our wellbeing is top priority!

**Medical Information**

Alongside my Asperger's syndrome, I works tirelessly to manage symptoms of PTSD that I has experienced in the past. Despite these challenges, I remains committed to personal growth and self-improvement.

In an effort to improve my health and wellbeing, I underwent a successful gastric bypass surgery due to overweight (i used to weigh 130 kilograms), which is now fully over (I maintain a healthy lifestyle with regular workout sessions 3-4 times a week). My right ankle has also been replaced with an internal prosthetic device that affords me full functionality aside from the occasional setting off of metal detectors. The scars on my leg are merely a testament to my determination and resilience in overcoming these challenges.

as for allergies, i am sorry ladies, sea food, fish and shellfish, i go hyper and might die, and real gold will will leave rashes if more then 10 minutes conected to my skin, i have become my own real gold tester.

**Preference** 

i seek a female between 21 and 50 years old, who wants to explore my interests with me whether Experienced or new to the lifestyle, i prefer a Caucasian with athletic body and blonde hair (this is nothing to do with racism, its just my preference and anyone who feels called by my profile is encouraged to contact me!); I prefer a non smoker and drinker, but if you do well its covered in important information. I do seek the same lifestyle choices. No long-distance relationships or Cyber play. Additionally, it is crucial for me to maintain monogamy in my relationships, and I expect the same level of commitment from my partner. I seek a partner who is open-minded, communicative, and eager to delve into the world of BDSM together.

**Interests**

Pony-play holds a special place in my heart, as I delight in training, caring for, and beautifying you into a majestic creature. Verbal and mental domination are also high on my list of preferences, along with bondage—including the intricate art of shibari bondage—chastity, and exploring other fetishes. **WARNING, I am not really in to giving you physical pain**

**Aftercare**

As an advocate for safe play and consensual exploration, aftercare plays a critical role in my sessions. Following our encounters, you can expect open communication, nourishing food and drink, as well as the option of receiving massages, engaging in shared activities like watching films or series together, and addressing any sexual tensions that may have built up during our playtime. I also am 27/7 reachable in case you need help or protection, because i really care!

**In summary**

despites loads of setbacksin my life, I am a passionate and dedicated individual seeking someone who shares my love for BDSM, exploration, and monogamy. Together we can embark on a journey of trust, communication, and mutual satisfaction in both our personal lives and our shared fetishes.

contact trough:

ofcourse here on collarspace, feel free to write me a Message !