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Got to an age where settling down with someone to love and take care of (in a controlled environment) really appeals. Natural homemaker (with serious perversions) but also seeking wider compatibility with similar intellectual (and political) interests, such as sharing a movie, but im the one with the butt plug in, TV, swimming, hiking, probably with someone of a similar age (and perspective) although a younger guy could make this older guy very happy indeed.

Im an endomorph who lusts after mesomorphs, lousy at motivating myself to stay in good shape but, with positive encouragement, that would (quickly) change. Ive never had the best self-image so, like many, I can be bashful.

Im an only kid, no family and being at boarding school meant i never learned to date, so i need help and patience ing a relationship thats more than a friendship.

Naturally submissive, although not a slave (any more although that could be your challenge). I have been spoilt with great training in the past. So, sorry, you have to be quite special in your outlook if you think i might (nowadays) lick your boots. As an Inferno regular for 20 years, I appreciate technical skills too. (If that sounds arrogant, well thats what life has done to me.)

Im very into musclebodygenitalbulge worship ... pierced (septum, nips, reverse PA, guiches, transcrotal, sphincter), two tatts, plus the glans and a small subincision, into chastity, hole playtraining, plugging, toys and trying to take to take a fist plus good, old-fashioned fucking), cBt including electro and play piercing, love underwear (and underwear games and control), sportswear, dex - probably cage time too - straitjackets, edging, piss, enemas, going out plugged with cb bondage (perhaps more?).

That said, i have no doubt i could return to a more permanently submissive lifestyle for the right Dom. Psychologically, Im fucked ... in that Im a coward but love the intense sensation others call pain, but from a different perspective. Also, a guy who can take me through the caning pain barrier for HIS pleasure and so I can wear his stripes as i buzz on the afterglow and the memory, is a guy to treasure. Its not punishment but ... quite a reward!

Life is more than sex and SM, but being up-front about the erotic is one of the joys of power exchange. Mental stimulation is important and i need to write, but that can and does generate income ... to go with taking care of you and your home, Sir.

Have been told im a good cocksucker. Sir, have you ever fucked a pierced hole?

Anything else? please ask.

In London quite often ... Also near Bziers in SW France a few times a year ... I like to travel. I could relocate .... (Equal marriage makes US living more realistic.) Visit the US 1-2x a year.

My writing Put Christopher Charlton into Amazon search or put emoherotica into a search engine.

Non-fiction The Key to Life - How to get more from chastity for men.

Fiction Revelation, Renaissance and Retirement - a trilogy a slaves voyage of self-discovery. (They say a LOT about me, i am told!)