My ideal is a long term female-led relationship with a male sub that can bottom and top on command or a subby switch. Kink is really important in a relationship to me so I'd like to determine compatibility and then do all that vanilla dating stuff. Seeking someone that lives in Toronto, Mississauga, Oakville, Hamilton, or Burlington area.

I am a dominant top and bottom and occasionally enjoy subbing for the right person. I started out identifying as a sub and then a switch, but mostly domme fits me best right now. It's not very long before the sadist in me comes out and I'm itching to be back in control. Even when subbing my favourite game is letting go into submission while my "dom" follows fun rules I gave them pre-scene. Who's really in control when he's wearing a hollow strap on or locked up in chastity?

Some of my many non-BDSM interests include: veganism, feminism, video games, the outdoors, creativity, yoga, and reading.