Collarspace

I am a daughter, mother, sister, friend, teacher, lover, confidant, toy, playmate and student. I am intelligent, independent and need no one however, I love those I choose to include in my life. Who am I to you? That depends on you.

I have been actively involved in BDSM for over 10 years. I am interested in meeting those who are intelligent, humble, dominant, skilled and financially secure (I do not need you to take care of me financially, I need you to be able to take care of YOURSELF).

I am VERY independent in my vanilla life and have quite a strong personality. I am a masochist and a brat. I adore shibari and have bottomed for many skilled riggers in San Diego county. I am one of those wonderful submissives with an alpha personality.

I have NO interest in long distance or online relationships. My life is very settled where I am at and I have NO desire to relocate.

Grammar and punctuation matter. Messages without proper punctuation, capitalization and grammar come across as lazy and uneducated. I am not interested in lazy, uneducated partners.

I do realize this is a BDSM site, but if your initial message indicates I should immediately submit to you or is disrespectfulcrude in any manner, I will simply delete it. Every Dominant I have ever played with has been more respectful than vanillas that I date. If you dont understand that, we most likely will not get along. If your profile has a picture of your genitals, I will simply delete your message. If you refer to yourself in the third person, I will laugh my ass off and then delete.

If you message me, I expect YOU to keep the conversation going. I assume your message is the result of an interest in getting to know me. If you cant do that, how in the world do you expect to be dominant in a relationship??