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| If you are not able to make an effort when you reply, do not bother. I do not seek an occasional traveler to this area, or to the lifestyle. I also do not demand, or need, 24x7 or live-in. But a very serious kind of relationship would be awesome. What I seek is consistency. Something with a future! If you think I am being difficult or that I have an "attitude", you could not be more wrong. I am quite eager to to have us find one another! You must be capable of regular, even daily, communication. I am here to find a woman who can be an active partner in a special sort of relationship.
I have no physical or health problems that would make me a risk, in any way. I'm single. I've been highly educated and I am very well traveled. I do not tell you this as some kind of a challenge. I am simply trying to be honest. When I really began to understand myself , it was years ago and I reacted to it in a very positive way. Before that, and for a lot of years, I had been trying a number of times to dip my toes into the lifestyle waters, but I was not really ready, or I had not found the right person(s).
I'm about to relocate, to southern Maine, so that I can be near the cultural and enlightened actitivities found in Boston, Portland and Portsmouth. I have some personal reasons for doing this and I also miss being near the ocean. Up until now, I have tried to exist, and thrive, in Vermont. That is simply not possible.
I must stress that I am intelligent. This does NOT mean that I would challenge anybody. It does mean that my interests are many and varied.
I've always been sexual and never had a lot of limits or inhibitions. But. there has been so much to wade through and to understand. I think more in terms of challenges, not in terms of limits. How about you?
I will challenge your knowledge and your limits. Not by being confrontational, but by being warm and sincere. Not because I want to belittle you but because of what we both deserve. I am always going to want MORE! You must WANT to not only serve but to please. It might not be a 24/7 proposition, but it should be important enough to you so that such desires are always in your mind.
If you do not live in New England, do not contact me unless you can tell me when you will be in the area. I am not looking for casual compliments or, for that matter, comments of any kind. I will ignore all who do not spark my interest.
Do NOT try to squeeze me into your set of hopes and desires. If you contact me, you should make it clear that you can offer what I seek. Then, we can move ahead. The quickest way to get deleted is to ask me to view your profile and offer me nothing more about yourself! Does it take such an insurmountable effort to tell me about yourself? Also, please understand that I set the pace.
DO NOT ask me to chat! I expect nothing less than carefully considered and thoughtful communication. And, if you do not have a recent picture in your profile, send one with your first message. I will, of course, do the same! Otherwise, you are deleted. And, please, I understand this might seem demanding. Deal with it!
You should be open about your personal situation. Clear about how much time you can offer and how much of yourself you can offer. I have a mild form of ED which does not keep me from performing quite nicely, but it does mean that things move slowly. So, you should enjoy lengthy oral and stimulation, along with other, more kinky activites, as part of any experience and foreplay. And, you will never lack for considerable, intimate attention.
I would love hearing from the woman who is into all of the elements of this lifestyle and who would like to explore and discover new things, together. I'm not particularly sadistic, but I know how excitement can be found in a playful, light level of pain. My limits are those of somebody who is sane and rational.
Seeking a woman who is a bit of an exhibitionist, at least in private! A woman who would enjoy dressing to please me. Who would enjoy seeing my eyes light up as I viewed her! A woman who wants to invest the time in an ongoing and stable sort of relationship, whatever that might end up being.
If you are looking for the chance to step outside of your daily life, get in touch with me.
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I have found a gentleman/Master who is proving to me that he is precisely what I need. I will continue to visit this site, but only to keep in touch with friends. |
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I am not a nasty girl! But, I can act that way. Today's winning contact was from a "guy" who says I would have to meet him at a motel room that I would have to pay for! Guess, he needs a bigger allowance! |
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I am not naive. And, I am not unreasonable. I know that the real world can make it very difficult to live this lifestyle |
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I guess I am right! Insecurity is rampant among the men, on this site, who call themselves dominant. Fact is they simply know that they can not handle a sub if she is also a strong person. Frankly, there seems to be more substance, strength and depth of character to be found in a dominant woman. |
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I have to doubt the sincerity of any professed "dom" who expects a sub to put out a real effort and then can not do the same. While I may identify as submissive, I am not your submissive until I make that choice. Seems that the more presumptuous a "dom" is, the more insecure. |
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There are so many petulant, self-proclaimed "dominants" on this site. Their insecurities are so obvious. |
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Are all of the males on this site nothng more than low IQ fools? |
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Just a quick note, before I get started!
I've not entered a SINGLE WORD into my profile and I already have more than 30 responses!
That says a lot about the quality of these people. Don't you think? |
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