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Greetings. welcome to my profile!

i am a seasoned submissive who aspires to be slave in a TPE (Total Power Exchange) dynamic. there are some who question my self classification as a slave because of my pickiness and my expectation to be treated with respect and consideration both before and after the steel goes around my neck. however, i live for the smile that i help put on other peoples faces and am not necessarily in this lifestyle for my own physical pleasure. i also believe in an equal measure of fulfillment and self-actualization in a dynamic between the Owner and the slave and will not drop for someone until i find it.

while i do not list myself as bisexual in my profile in that i am not particularly attracted to the male , i am not homophobic and recognize and respond to the power of ALL Dominants, be They Male or Female.

always polite and respectful, i know my place, am service oriented and seek to please and be found pleasing in everything that i do. my heart is warmed and my pain tolerance increased when i see the Dominants eyes light up with pleasure.

i do NOT possess a kink wishlist of my own. while i consider myself talented at using both my hands and mouth as well as my intellect, i firmly believe that a good slave will embrace the limits and tastes of his Owner. thus, for example, while i possess the ability to creatively make love to the feet of someone special in my life, i will not have any interest to do so unless the One i am serving desires to be pleasured in that way.

i am physically fit and exercise regularly and while i am drawn to Those who take good care of their bodies and expect the same in Their slave, to me the MOST important aspect of the power exchange dynamic is the psychological and spiritual connection between the Owner and the slave and thus the physicality of my future Owner is not as relevant as is Their attention to Their health and well-being, and by extention, to the property that They own.i have experience in chastity and denial, domestic service, giving neck, foot and body massages with my tireless hands, running errands, amongst other things, and while i do not consider myself to be much of a cook, i can food shop and clean up a kitchen better than most! i am family oriented and believe that jealousy in a slave has no place in a BDSM dynamic. i take my submission seriously, yet have a well developed sense of humour. i do not see the two as being mutually exclusive as i seek to serve One who knows how to laugh and enjoy life to its fullest.

while i am committed to my family and desirous of continuing my strong bond with my children, they are all adults with partners of their own, each forging their own life experience. consequently, i would seriously consider relocating to the right BDSM situation. i am self-employed in a white collar profession and although i am Canadian, due to my educational and work background i qualify automatically for a US work permit upon obtaining an offer of employment from a US company, have worked in the US under those permits in the past in NYC, PA and SNJ and presently possess a license in the State of Illinois. i am now on a quest to increase the portability of my work so that it can be pered with the use of my computer from wherever i am located.

while i do not often play at them, i have long served at various local private play parties, held both in well equipped public venues as well as in private homes. i also would consider myself to be somewhat of a seminar slut having attended with friends several BDSM weekend conventions such as the Super TESFests held every 5 years as well as Black Rose, the Fetish Flea events in New England and various organized weekends here in Canada.

i am quite experienced in BDSM dynamics however have yet to be formally collared in a strong power exchange. i am very loyal to my BDSM friends and am highly selective of those i become close to. i do not drop to my knees easily and refuse to learn on the job in a velcro-collar situation. for me, either the submission comes from deep within my belly or it does not come at all. i am openminded and fully believe that limits should be set by the Owner with safety and sanity serving as the cornerstones of the dynamic.

i can and have functioned very well on my own but know in my heart that i will NOT be truly fulfilled until i belong to and am remolded to the tastes of my future Owner. if chains, chastity and a cage is in my future, i will embrace them with arms that are held wide open until they are locked. if that is what destiny holds for me i will be ready and grateful to the One(s) who shall forever more hold the key.

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