I haven't been on this site in a long time but decided to return. I have been in the lifestyle for many years but I have very little experience. I do know my limits and what I like.
I am seeking a Dom male my age or older in or close to my area to get to know as both a friend and Dom. I do not mind if you have a partner already (this is more in the context of having a vanilla partner) but if they do not know you are in the lifestyle then I'm not interested, I do not believe in drama and I do not want issues down the road. No I will not serve online nor will I ever be interested my life is busy as it is.
I am a nonsexual sensualist submissive meaning I do not think that intercourse or sex of any kind should be part of the dynamic I am in and I do not like anything that would cause pain.
I am a bbw so if you are not into larger women don't bother contacting me. I do go to the gym at least 2 to 3 times a week so I do try and stay active at least even though I have a disability with permanent nerve damage to my left knee.
I am married to a vanilla husband, he knows I am in the lifestyle and approves of me seeking a Dom. Please be aware that our marriage comes first, so that means if we are to meet then on the first meeting you must meet him as well, if you are not willing to do that then it's a no go.
Likes: Bondage, sensory deprivation (no hoods, full or otherwise), wax, fire cupping, flogging (thuddy floggers), aftercare is a huge must. There are more that I might add later on.
Hard limits: Age play, role play of any kind including pet play, breath play, humiliation/degradation, blood play, medical play, anything with another female, anything illegal and sadism/masochism I have a low pain tolerance.