Hello, I'm Mike and although this is a new profile I am not

10/14/2016 4:14:27 AM

I have been thinking a lot lately about why this search is so difficult. Taking the obvious fakes and goofs out of the equation, ( anyone who has been here for more then a day can spot them from a mile away!! lol ) I started to think about wants and needs. We all have them...even truly submissive boys. I wont speak for other boys, but rather just my feelings on the subject. I have met some amazing women from this site, been burned a time or two as well, but for the most part the reasons those meetings didn't develop into the one thing I have strived for my entire life comes down to wants and needs. You talk to someone via this site...move to more personal communication..and then actually meet. Yes I want real in person submission to an amazing woman! This keyboard cant love and cherish me..it cant hold me accountable, nor can it quench my desire to submit to someone awesome :) I have things I hope for or want in a relationship, we all do. As a submissive these things can often change over time as I learn to love the things that make my Mistress happy. The chemistry, the bond that develops between boy and Mistress make it almost impossible to not have this happen!! It is the beautiful dance of Dominance and surrender! Eventually needs come into play as well though, and that's where things can get tricky. We all have needs... things that when they are missing cause us to not feel like we are being our true selves. Its why I stopped dating vanilla..why it just wasn't worth it regardless of how amazing my vanilla partners were. Do I believe that needs can also change over time? I really do and have seen how with the right person they evolve as well. But, core needs, things that are inside you and help make you the human being that you are don't ever really go away. If you have ever been in a seemingly good relationship, but just knew or felt something was just missing then you know exactly of what I speak. So I search for HER..... the one who gets ME ..... I try to find people with like interests, but more importantly someone who gets her Dominance and understands the time and effort involved in building this type of beautiful relationship. It takes attraction, chemistry.... you need to actually like each other!! lol As the boy in the relationship you seek out her wants and needs and do everything in your power to deliver those to her! The Mistress who understands that I have needs too and who fiqures out when to push or pull... when to hug and praise or when to punish and humiliate .... she is the one I seek with all my heart. I actually need to feel like I belong to her, like I matter to her... sometimes its as simple as a hug or smile and yet other times some cuffs and a smack or 2 do the trick!! :) What an amazing life this is!! I know your out there and one day I will kneel by your feet and smile that lovely smile of contentment :) Thanks for reading and have a great day!!!