Single Man tired of being single looking for a legit relationship. I'm a christian and seek the same. Just because we are to be "prudish" in public doesn't mean the bedroom has to be.

Somehow my info in this block got deleted. So I will attempt to recover it....

I am a Dom, a Master if you will, I seek a sub or slave who is elegant refined and can be sophisticated in public. I am seeking a woman to marry and start a family with. But that all said, even tho she may be mundane in the vanilla world she needs to be a LTR, TPE, and submissive BDSM kind of woman in the home and bedroom and occasionally in the vanilla world if we so decide to push the limits.

I have been in one BDSM relationship in my life and it was glorious unfortunately she couldn't handle it unless it was 24/7/365 to include public outings to the mall , church, or family events. I am not looking to alienate friends and family who are not into this lifestyle and as such she freaked out and assumed I was cheating on her and I had to end the relationship. I am not looking for that again. She must be stable in the head to understand both sides of the coin so we can have a wonderful relationship. and then as we gain trust we can expand. You don't just jump straight into a marathon without warming up.

I personally believe women should be treated with dignity and respect at all times to include BDSM. This is done by earning their respect and trust so you can go as far as you want breaking them down so long as you build them back up before you finish. If you leave them broken then it is unhealthy for everyone involved.