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I enjoy creating play with intimacy and intensity. I find a wiling eagerness to serve to be far more erotic than any certain type of woman. Intimate contact is every bit as important for me as a lust for service. Toys have their place, but the human connection of skin to skin contact is truly thrilling to me. Hence I enjoy play with intimacy and intensity. I find a willing eagerness to serve to be far more erotic than any certain type of woman or style of submission. Intimate contact is every bit as important for me as a lust for service. Toys have their place, but the very human connection of skin to skin contact is what is truly thrilling to me. As such, I have a love of hands on play, mainly focusing on spankings, breath play, breast beatings, among other types of impact, etc.
Sir best title for me though I have some strong Daddy tendencies. I am often described as calm and commanding, especially in my use of positive reinforcement. My authority is quite and I am told fills a room. It is not driven by anger or rage. It is part of who I am. Punishment is clearly part of my tool kit, but I strongly prefer to move forward in a more positive manner. I believe in rules, but will not make overly complicated/difficult rules and protocols just to force unneeded failure and punishments.
I am a sadist, I derive quite a bit of pleasure from delivering pain. That said, it is not about forcing an arbitrary amount of pain on my partners. It is about finding a balance that pushes them, not breaks them. Intellectually I understand why a submissive needs to suffer, but emotionally I will never understand where the strength comes from to give these gifts to another so freely. As such the mental side of this is eternally fascinating to me, I have been at this for years, but it is still awe inspiring to me every time.
As responsible sadist and Dom aftercare is a must for me. I will take a lot out of you, but I will give back just as freely. There is no shame is needing a helping hand after an intense experience (no matter what variety). I do my best to look after my submissives in the hours and days after a scene.
I come at kink from a slightly different perspective than most. I am politically and philosophically an egalitarian. Everyone has their own particular needs and identity. The most beautiful thing about kink is crafting a dynamic that allows for two people wildly different identities to come together and find mutual fulfillment.
Dominance and Kink have been part of my life since my teens. I have been practicing for close to two decades, and even when I need breaks, this is something I always come back to. It is part of who I am.
I believe in safe, sane, and consensual play. Safe words are required, and will always be respected, with the possible exception of well planned out CNC scenes.
ENTJ
https://www.16personalities.com/entj-personality
== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
98% Dominant
96% Degrader
92% Rigger
92% Sadist
90% Voyeur
88% Master/Mistress
86% Brat tamer
80% Experimentalist
77% Daddy/Mommy
75% Non-monogamist
72% Primal (Hunter)
71% Owner
66% Exhibitionist
37% Switch
37% Vanilla
34% Ageplayer
10% Brat
10% Rope bunny
10% Submissive
9% Masochist
6% Girl/Boy
5% Degradee
5% Primal (Prey)
2% Slave
1% Pet
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