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aldompdx
Hetero Male, 50, PDX Metro, Oregon 
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aldompdx

TANTRA MASTER -- Experience Deeper Intimacy With Inner Surrender.

 

I manifest the dynamic of control/surrender at a deeper level, as a polarization of equality, balance, and wholeness of being. One cannot truly be invited to exercise control over another, until one has mastered self control of mind, heart, and choice. One cannot truly surrender to another until one surrenders to herself, the truth of her deepest heart and spirit.

Every person is different. One's natural balance can be different at many  internal levels -- along the continuum between the polarities of control and surrender. BDSM labels tend to be a disservice in finding one's inherent balance points.

Awareness is inner observation, beyond which there is no deeper observer. It is found through stillness of the mind, balance of the heart, and transparency of the ego.

Control is mastery over one's self. It is an aspect of deep inner awareness and presence, as the masculine archetype in tantrika. It is not inner repression or denial, but is awareness which affects the freedom to intimately share one's heartspace. Control is not oppressively imposed over another, as compensation for lack of self control, or as the sequalae of narcissism.

Fulfillment arises from the only place it is ever experienced -- one's very own heart. It is neither given nor taken in a bargain, but only grows with sharing, as a story grows with its telling.

Fulfillment is the core of love. It is a singularity of light, not a duality of light and dark. A shadow does not exist independent of light. The nature of the universe is light. Looking at the darkest part of the night sky, through the eye of a needle (or .65mm hole at 1m) one sees over 100 quadrillion stars. If one's eyes were sufficiently sensitive, the night sky would appear completely filled with light. Similarly is our heart with love.

Surrender is by continuous free choice from self will. It is an aspect of deep inner energy and light, as the feminine archetype in tantrika. It is not passivity or a bargain of giving to get fulfillment. Ultimate surrender is of the false ego association that fulfillment arises from an external , upon which the inner feeling is dependent. With a transparent ego, the ever-present light of one's fulfillment and love can shine forth, in intimate heartspace with another. The choice to share self-surrender and deference or service can be inspired by respect and honor for another's self control, awareness, presence, inner strength, personal excellence, and capacity for sharing open hearted intimacy.

The term "power exchange" is a BDSM oxymoron. Personal power can never be relinquished, or exchanged in a bargain of giving to get fulfillment or love. Person S can only delegate the authority for person M to exercise M's own personal power on behalf of S. It follows the legal concept of principal and agent. The exercise of power without authority is abuse.

The edge which you choose to reach is the precipice not of physical limitation -- but of peaceful observation, passionate fire, and sacred transcendence to your inner spirit.

A sensual naked body is sexy, but an intimate naked heart is sexier.

Drug free. Non-smoker. Vegetarian. 30+ years experience in tantrika and ashtanga yoga.

You yearn to learn what exists within, or otherwise seek enhanced depth of experience. This is essential to your being, 24/7 not just a 1 hour role play.

You may seek training, to develop your core character into the purest manifestation of the "role" you fulfill. You may wish to learn how self will is first found within your own being, in support of making an affirmative choice to surrender. You may want to have your character molded into the humble, caring, serving, giver that you know is at the core of your soul. You are not a mere passive or mindless drone, and you may be particularly interested in inward surrender to support your desire to delegate authority.

You desire to know how aware interaction with your partner requires -- emotional feeling, not physical ritual; self acceptance, not self sublimation; self respect, not invited abuse; self honesty, not bargaining or competing; inner caring beauty, not external vanity; innocence, not embarrassment; duty of choice, not victim of trap; generosity, not suffering; humility, not humiliation; released inhibition, not conceptual limitation; transcended consciousness, not pain endurance; conscientious awareness, not mindless obedience; inner love, not external identification.

 

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