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Someone asked me if I began my path in bdsm as a submissive..... I most certainly did not. I started out as a Dom and I still hold on to that title when I find those worthy. Just as I am only a submissive to those I find worthy. There's your answer. |
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It's a Little kind of day. |
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I am in a relationship. So yeah. Act accordingly. Lol |
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I AM NOT SEEKING ONLINE PLAY. |
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Since I have a perfectly good profile on fetlife, I'm just going to paste it here. I am not a robot. I'm not catfishing. I am lazy and have way too many things to do than rewrite a new one.
Have been into various kinks and bdsm long before I realized they had names. While I am knowledgeable about many kinks, fetishes and so on, I have joined this site to meet people whom I can interact with and glean even more information from.
To those whom wish to play, I am a switch, which means that I can be either a top or a bottom at any given time. I cannot simply be one or the other permanently. To be one and deny the other would slowly break me in a most horrible and disheartening way.
As a Dom, i am more of a sensual sadist. I am big on senstion and impact play and I go based on my sub's likings and pain tolerance.
As a sub, I aim to please with some minor exceptions and especially enjoy flogging.
To those who wish to know how far I want to push my limits, if I'm not having fun anymore then I have reached my limit. Pain is precieved differently at any given time for any different reason. I may be up for being beaten like a tough piece of meat one day and only able to handle a light spanking the next time. So check in and see what's up.
If at any time I use the safe word (Red!) And you ignore it, that's fair grounds for me fighting for my life and kicking your ass if need be. Respect the safe word. Same goes for the hard no list. The last guy who came in my mouth got his dick bit and puked on. Lesson learned.
I DO NOT do cam shows or random phone sex. Nor do I want to see you on cam. I don't want to trade pics with you. The pics I post on here are the same ones I have on my device and you aren't going to get anything new so don't waste your time.
*REAL LIFE COMES FIRST. I am a single parent, I work and need sleep. I assume that you follow along similar lines. I am not going to drop everything to meet your needs. For example, a sub I was recently considering insisted that I spend copious amounts of time on the phone with him. My work and childcare responsibilities meant nothing to him.
*SAFETY FIRST. The only male I play with sexually without protection is my Dom. He will at times loan me to others he trusts, but unless that is you, you will wear a condom or we will not play.
*NO BEGGING. I do not handle begging very well outside of a scene where it's applicable. I don't care if you are a top or a bottom. Begging is annoying and a sign of disrespect. If I say no, that means no.
*POSSESSIVENESS. I frequently have more than one partner. And I am honest about this with all parties. I don't tolerate possessiveness in a relationship, I sure as hell won't accept it in a bdsm dynamic.
I took this lovely test and as you can see I'm a little bit of everything all rolled into one... Cue it! I'M A BITCH I'M A LOVER I'M A CHILD I'M A MOTHER--- I don't think its working...
Anyhow... The results.
== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
99% Switch
95% Experimentalist
89% Primal (Hunter)
89% Voyeur
88% Exhibitionist
87% Primal (Prey)
83% Brat
82% Non-monogamist
81% Rope Bunny
81% Rigger
73% Sadist
71% Dominant
68% Submissive
67% Brat Tamer
65% Ageplayer
59% Masochist
56% Girl/Boy
54% Master/Mistress
49% Pet
48% Daddy/Mommy
39% Owner
34% Degrader
30% Degradee
29% Slave
28% Vanilla
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.?id=1130766
As I have gotten to know people and chat, I realize I should list the things that I will not do so that potential playmates can take a look and decide if I am what they want.
Hard No:
*cum/urine in my mouth
*anal stretching
*any sort of brush inserted in any hole
*needle play unless I feel comfortable with the situation
*fecal play
*anal fisting
*shaving my twat... Unless I fucking want to.
*clothes pins on pussy
*biting my clit
*enemas
*diapers
*punching or hard slaps
*spitting in my face
*animals
*tazers
*blood play
*cutting
*branding
*scarification
*kicking guys in the balls
*hardware nails
*chicken grease as lube (Snickers profusely)
More to be added as I think of them. |
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