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| I have been down this path before, was involved in the active real time community for many years and attended conventions/seminars. I was a member of the discussion group Masters and slaves Together (MAST) MA chapter for a couple of years as well.
I am submissive only for a man that trust and respect have been established. This is not something that can be demanded or instilled with fear. I have been looking for someone to form a committed relationship with, both vanilla and D/s. As the relationship develops my submission deepens. For me D/s is more about the mental/emotional then about pain. I will not tolerate humiliation.
I am not looking for a long distance email relationship. I need to feel the touch of a hand both hard and gentle caressing.
I have been divorced for 12yrs, never had children. No medications, no health concerns just a few extra pounds.
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Another year older and while things change some things forever will stay the same. The fact that some self proclaimed dominant men have extremely fragile male egos should be a universal constant.
I am a strong independent woman. I know what I want and won't settle for less. It confounds me when a simple "thank you, but no" is perceived as an attack on their ego. The last gentleman from NY was reduced to being insulting all because I am not going to waiver on the long distance relationship issue. I was just told I am uneducated and make poor choices in the way I dress. All this from a profile photo and an email.
I had a friend that cataloged that behavior into a Dom-wanna-be. They need a submissive woman to build up their confidence and don't even realize it. This type of Dominant is dangerous. They think only on how do dominate and selfishly on their own pleasure but do not have the knowledge of the psychological ramifications of their actions. Remember the motto Safe Sane Consensual!
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Its rather amusing that this is my second day after a 3 yr break and already I feel a need to rant. I am not interested in a long distance or online relationship. I want someone to be involved in my life and to be a part of theirs. That means real life interactions. |
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| Age: 28 |
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