Quotes I have come across which resonate with me:
'All I want is to fall asleep in the arms of a man who is not afraid to use my body, and wake up in the arms of a man who can respect my mind and love my heart.'
'A good sub should be appreciated, I like to be a princess that can become a slut when need be.'
'Having fun, laughing and being silly, and knowing when there is a tone switched that I'm at your feet within a second knowing my place.'
'I don't think I would enjoy humiliation much, or being spoken to in ways like 'you're a fucking slut' etc. I am more interested in being cherished, valued, loyal, obedient, and submissive, eager to please and do well, and receiving praise when I do.
'I've learned that while I greatly enjoy low to moderate pain levels, I prefer a more nurturing Dom instead of one focused on heavy pain and aggressive humiliation.'
'The intimacy of a D/s relationship is second to none.'
'To me, an intimate relationship is not simply a euphemism for sex. Sex is part of intimacy, but it is only one part. Intimacy includes every kind of closeness; mental, physical, emotional and spiritual.'
'I'm always eager to learn more. I'm not into extreme pain and I tend to lean more toward the mental and sensual aspects of a D/s relationship. That's not to say I'm not open to experimenting with other aspects, but my lack of experience leaves me a bit unsure of what exactly it is I'm looking for. I'm willing to keep an open mind and explore the different possibilities, and in doing so, hopefully discover things about myself I may never otherwise know.'
'I will be whatever you wish me to be, your lady in public and your slut behind closed doors, vice versa or all of the above....' Note: You will almost always be my lady in public. I also like the saying 'A lady in the parlor... a slut in the bedroom.' You will be both for me. I enjoy the contrast between being vanilla in public (almost always, with room for some fun, and discreet, exceptions) and being anything but vanilla in private.
'I read the other day that in the end the only things we will regret are not taking more risks and not being more loving towards others.'
'It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything and can't even move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, and all you are permitted to do, is feel.' - Cherise Sinclair.
'I'm seeking a long-term relationship with a Dom that I can bond to, grow with, and learn from... a strong, confident, and commanding man who can be kind and understanding, respectful and compassionate, patient but firm, and protective. P/S Not into whips or pain or humiliation or online sex or nude pics! It is my hope that he is willing to respect yet push my limits, offer consistent structure and discipline, teach and guide me, understand a sub's mind, and help me reach new levels of intimacy and confidence. Trust, respect, communication, openness, and honesty are incredibly important to me, as I hope they are to him as well.'
'If loving you makes a slave of me, then I'll spend my whole life in chains.' - Sophie B. Hawkins
'No woman truly knows what she is, until she has worn a collar.' - Unknown
'You can close your eyes to the things you do not want to see, but you cannot close your heart to what and who you are, what you have become and the things you need to make you feel whole and complete.'
'Protocols are the invisible leash.'
'I have come to the conclusion, there is nothing intimate about fucking and being used, I crave intimacy.'
Girl: 'Are you a man, or a boy?'
Guy: 'Well, what's the difference?'
Girl: 'With a man, you feel like you're being taken, and you like it. And with a boy, you feel they're stealing something from you, and you don't like it.'
'There is within a submissive female a longing to be truly seen, and known....used, cherished, and refined. There is a passion that needs to be fed by His dominance.... to be truly put in her place at His feet and she will be kept there, not by the chains that bind her, but her deep desire to please Him.'
'I want the kind of man a woman can trust when she can no longer trust herself.'
'I want to give myself completely, for there to be expectations of me and consequences for failing to meet those expectations, but still to be cared for and treated with some degree of respect. I want to quiver at your feet, and yet feel completely safe in your arms.'
'It takes a lot of courage to show your dreams to someone else.'
'The true beauty of submission lies not in the act, but in the will.'
'Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those that matter don't mind.' -Dr. Seuss
'If your heart doesn't have a reason to keep beating... it won't.'
'The heart has reasons which the reason cannot understand.'
'So here you are. Your intelligence and beauty makes men want you, ache for you, and act like drooling fools. In your relationships, you always want your man to be stronger, rougher, just more of a MAN deep down. But how can you tell him to hurt you a little? Take away your control, scare you a little, make you beg... and make YOU the hungry one? How can you possibly explain that to your average guy? You can't teach them. They either have it or they don't, and finding it in a normal relationship is pretty much impossible. So here you are. Looking for the man you can't manipulate. The man who has control over himself, his sexuality, and most importantly, you. As strong as you could need. As good a man deep down as you've always wanted, and just as intense and dirty as you've always dreamed. The one who will TAKE you - in the bedroom, in the bathroom, in the living room, in a dark alley. Wherever he wants. Whenever he wants. However he wants. The one who doesn't have to ask. The one who knows what is his and isn't afraid to take it. The one to make you wet, aching, begging, and constantly turned on.'
'Submission can be about authority and obedience; but at the base of it for me, it is also about relationships of love and respect. And can be sexy as hell...'
'I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don't mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don't mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding.'― Anais Nin
