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| Had a profile here previously, but lost the password and can't seem to get collarspace mail to retrieve it.
I'm graysexual - which means I'm mostly asexual, but could possibly engage in normal sexual activities for the right person/s. I'm not averse to poly, but it would have to be extremely awesome people, or an arrangement that makes sure everyone knows my status.
That said, I'm still a dominant, just perhaps not in the conventional way. I'm all about the control aspects: orgasm control, chastity, sensory deprivation, service, etc. I like to get my subs worked up to the brink of insanity with sheer need, and watch them fall apart when/if release is granted.
I'm not looking for someone to provide erogenous pleasures to me. No appeal.
I don't want to play a scene, or meet for a romp. If there's no emotional attachment, the physical part means less than nothing. That's kind of the "a" part of asexual. It is one word, not two.
Other things to know: I'm a blatant geek, mostly of the gamer variety, although I love to read sci-fi & fantasy. Useless trivia and clever word play are wonderful as well. I'm fat, but working on that - I will never be small or skinny, genetics gave me wide shoulders, wide hips, big breasts, and a big arse, but I can be healthy. I work strange hours, so I may be on at odd times.
CURRENTLY: I have no sub, and stop asking if you can be my doormat. Yes, that means YOU.
Please note, if you do not have an active profile, I can not talk to you. You can send me messages until you fall over, but without an active profile, I have no ability to respond. One of my journal entries covers that glitch. And I am evidently very much not alone with it.
I'm not particularly interested in anyone out of the country, unless you legitimately may move here.
I'm not a findomme, although if you feel you want to send me money for no real reason, I won't say no. I just don't demand it.
Any further questions, do please ask. Friends are always welcome.
Also, please do not message me and refer to me as goddess. I find it prideful, but realize that some dommes demand it. I do not, and I do not like it.
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If you don't have an active profile, I can't answer your messages because of the glitch mentioned in an earlier journal. I'm sorry, but until I can figure a way around it, that's just how it is. |
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I can't keep track of all the people I've talked to. There's been so much mail that the interesting people get buried under 15 pages of crap, and I just can't wade through all that. So, if I've snubbed you, it was unintentional. |
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Anyone else having this weird glitch where replying directly to a message takes you to the login screen and signs you out? I'm having to read a message, type my reply, copy it, go to the person's profile page, and paste into the send message thing. It's tedious, and I am rather annoyed by it. |
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I will get back to people soon. I just need a bit first. |
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With all the unattached service subs on here, I'm going to gather them all and make a house cleaning service. They're happy, I make money... |
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Thank you Collarspace, for being a weird website to work with. Dropping my phone should not result in 4 people being blocked. |
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It's too bad there's not a way to develop a pain transfer system. I could be giving a masochist a hell of a good time right now.
Grinding one's teeth in one's sleep in unpleasant. Cracking a tooth due to said grinding is painful. Falling asleep and grinding the cracked tooth is agonizing. |
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