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OWNED
PROPERTY
The answer to the question,
why are you here if you are owned? is,
because i find other humans and
what they have to say about
themselves endlessly interesting, of course.

Included below are both

a current profile,

and my standard, long-term profile,

written before i was found and enslaved.
i apologize for the length.
i am my Masters owned property,

and i love him dearly.

as such,

i am not looking for an owner.

But, i do enjoy making new friends.
Play partner(s)?

i honestly dont know.

Let me know that You are interested,

and maybe,

that will motivate me to ask Daddy.

But, i probably wont.

Especially if

You are a Dominant Man,

with a desire to play with me.

so please, dont ask me to.
i currently have little interest in doing that.

However,
You are certainly free to befriend and ask him.
i will do whatever he decides. It goes without
saying that any RL contact with me will necessitate
his knowledge and consent.

We do go to local parties occasionally.

If You are a fellow submissive

Of any gender, a couple,

or pretty much anyone

seeking like minded friends

or acquaintances, or perhaps more
(or not)
then by all means, say hi.

i am far more likely to let him

Know about You,

If You tell me that You want me to.

Master is not particularly concerned with
What i do online

But, for goodness sake,

Dont ask someone elses slave

To have or do online

or phone

anything with You.
Please

Dont be that person.

Always be polite

And

You will find me a delight. -)

Owned by, and property of
DanaRubberNYC

wearing their locked collar, 247.

Trans woman, 57

Brooklyn, NY

Since the category trans
can mean several different things
in this space

In my case, it means that i am out.

Name legally changed, live as female 247365.

i am normally girly, but not obsessively so.

Just your average woman.

Not a sissy

Not a gurl

Not a x-dresser.

There is nothing at all wrong with any of those

and i do not begrudge

or judge

anyone their likes, needs,

wants, fetishes or identities.

So long as we are safe with,

and respectful of others

We are all authentic and beautiful.

i do have a lot of

childlike

little girl in me,
And, it is an important
dynamic
in my relationship
with my Daddy.

But, i cannot claim to

strictly identify as a little,
in spite
of the fact
that i am drawn to
and relate to
some aspects
of the little life.

i am a woman.

Please proceed with that in mind.

Thank You.

My Master is interested in adding to our family,

or, simply making friends

with like-minded people.

He is in his mid 40s, bisexual,

and has an interest in younger

trans women,

cis women,

and submissive boys(of legal age, of course).

i am his domestic and service slave, his maid, his little girl,

and his loyal, obedient, loving girlfriend*

(although i live in my own place),

and i welcome anything he desires.

He also has a keen interest in

rubber,

latex,

respirator and breath play,

and bondage.

*i use the word girlfriendas a
cultural reference point.
Master is not fond of the word,

but he understands that it is necessary

when navigating the wider

vanilla world out there.
we, of course, do some typical

boyfriend-girlfriend stuff
out there in said world

but
Make no mistake-i am a slave.
i am his slave.
if it were culturally acceptable

to be on a leash all the time

and everywhere
That would happen, today.
i am property.
Treasured and loved
But property, nonetheless.

Please understand that he is owned by another,

A gay man with who he shares a long term,

completely committed,

live-in relationship.

i respect, and i am subservient to his Master,

although i do not have any romantic or

sexual relationship with him,

and i do not serve him directly,

except for the fact that i keep their home clean,

and serve their meals when i am there,

along with other errands and the like

for the household that are expected

of me.

The Master of the house has his own

interests and pursuits that i will not

address or speak for here.

This is about my Master and i only.

He will decide if You are or are not

a good fit for his life.

My only desire is to serve him

and to adore him.
He is kind, patient,

gentle

and

intellectually perceptive.

He is funny

self-aware

And unquestionably
in control
Both in general,

and of me, totally. -)

He is my sunshine.

He is my

Absolute Ruler

and

my dear sweet Daddy.

i am not perfect

at all of this

as Master is the first

to really own me.

What i lack in experience

i make up for in my desire to serve.

It is difficult for me

to find the words

to describe howmuch
i adore
his control of me

and

just what

being his personal

property in

every way

means.

The feelings it all

creates

are

the most rewarding

that i have ever experienced.

Obviously, slavery of this type-

obedience and subservience in all things,

along with

mutual and honest love and affection

-suits this girl -)

It really, really does. -)

i am not necessarily his alpha slave,

as i am quite submissive.

Therefore,

i have no overwhelming desire to be served

by anyone.

Again, Master will decide whether or not

You are a good fit for

that role.

If he expects me to obey and serve You,

i will. But that should not be an initial expectation.

All decisions regarding your potential role

are up to him.

These are two sincere, highly intelligent

and honorable men, who i adore and respect.

They, and by extension i, will not tolerate

even the most remote appearance of any

bullshit, lies or hidden agendas.

You will be self-sufficient.

No one here is going to support you.

No one here will put up with any drama

whatsoever.

If you cannot be a positive addition

to this family, without dragging baggage

or other crap you may have into it,

please move on.

i am fiercely protective of these two guys,

but they are more than capable of taking

care of themselves.

Any baloney will detected,

and will not be tolerated, ever.

That said, we are all easy-going,

and enjoy hanging out together

for normal vanilla events like meals,

watching television, or listening to music,

as well as other run-of-the-mill activities

like cookouts or movie-going.

Life here is not a non-stop porn movie.

Master and his

are very experienced, and extremely
serious abo

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4/21/2018 6:52:52 AM
First, Collarspace loses the last two thirds of my profile, which was written, edited and added to carefully over several years, and now the "edit profile" button is gone. 
What is happening in here?

3/9/2018 6:35:35 AM
Fun with Nitwits:

When somebody contacts you with a copy&paste form greeting, bearing the same exact photo as someone or someone(s) else, living across the planet.  

Hey, don't laugh. Science says it's at least plausible that there may be universes where your clothes emerge from the dryer all sorted and folded. So, there's that.  
Every possibility is happening somewhere, i guess. 
:-)

2/11/2018 4:58:44 AM
i continue to receive come-ons from people who apparently will spontaneously burst into flames if they attempt to read anybody's profile. 

it's not even sad anymore. It's way beyond that. And no, i still do not understand.

Oh....and, you guys who can only offer, "we're dudes. we like pictures better" aren't helping your cause. 

Morons. Full stop. 

10/14/2017 6:42:01 AM
i realize that this is a repetitive rant, but fuckall, it bears repeating:
When i see someone potentially interesting here, do you know what i do? Get ready...i'm going to let You in on my secret....i READ THEIR PROFILE!!
Yes, i actually take a few seconds, and read what said individual has taken the time to write, ABOUT THEMSELVES!
This amazing technique allows me to gain insight that i did not previously possess, and more easily decide if i wish to maybe contact this individual! 
It's fool-proof!
it's fun!
It's easy!
And, best of all, it's free!!

But wait, there's more!
If you act now, and actually take the few seconds it takes to actually READ A PROFILE before You contact someone, you will save yourself the embarrassment of saying something utterly fucking ridiculously stupid, inappropriate, rude or ignorant, all because you couldn't be bothered to read some words on a page!

For fun, satisfaction and optimum enjoyment of this space, you cannot beat READING THE PROFILE!!

It's the bees knees!


P.S. You copy-and-paste message folks are completely pathetic. 





9/7/2017 7:05:02 AM
i have seen quite a few profiles lately, in which the writer admonishes others to "be polite and answer if I write to you" or, "don't be rude and ignore my polite message" or similar sentiments, almost exclusively written by men. 

To which i have a few questions:
Have You ever been catcalled, street harassed, or touched inappropriately out in the world? 
Have You ever been stalked, either by telephone, online or in person, by anybody?(i fully understand that many men can answer "yes" to this question).
Do You understand that simply being on this site necessitates a measure of caution, at all times?
Do You understand that Your comfort level may not be the same as someone else's?

If i do not answer You, it's because i did not want to. i'm allowed. i have my reasons, or i may have no reason. i'm allowed that, too. It doesn't necessarily mean that i think that You are a creep. Consider it a polite "no thanks". The same goes for "deleted unread" posts, usually(although, i typically save "deleted unread" for the messages that make me think, "You have GOT to be kidding me").
Now, If You are sending me obvious mass spam, a copy-and-paste greeting you use regularly, If You are purposefully rude, or if You make it obvious that you made no attempt to read one word of my profile.....
i offer a hearty "fuck off". 

Have a lovely day. :-)



6/18/2017 5:51:49 AM
My Daddy is my Master. He is in complete control.
Of me. 
However, He is not a misogynist, a male supremacist, Or one that believes that women are necessarily inferior. 
This is an important distinction, between His type of Dominant and many of those i run across here, in this space. 
And, not to put too fine a line on it, but yes, i do believe it is important, and says something about character, honor, intelligence and overall worldview. 
As far as i am concerned, He could have easily been She. Or They. Or Ze. i am firmly bisexual(or pansexual), and firmly subservient.
He is also bisexual, and at this point in his life, overwhelmingly Dominant. He considers himself emotionally and socially intersex. Perhaps not in appearance, but certainly in demeanor and viewpoint on most topics. It's hard to object to that.
Without becoming too politically oriented in this essay, i will simply say that our viewpoints regarding the world out there usually align pretty nicely.
Together, we have no need for traditional notions of male privilege or superiority. 

Just His. 

He is certainly in charge. 
i am not.  
period. 

He has no need to couch that with misogyny. He has no need to support his control of me with outdated sexist notions, and to me, this makes his dominance and control of me as honest, real and genuine as it can possibly be. 

i don't want to get too political here, but i am owned by a feminist. And that is a wonderful thing.

3/16/2017 8:42:13 PM
i have a conflicted relationship with spankings. i really hate pain(i know.... not a great quality in a slave), it makes me scream, 100% of the time. In the past, i have tried to 'toughen up" by seeing sadists, but all that does is make me scream louder. i am simply a wimp when it comes to pain. And, knowing that i am in for pain fills me with anxiety and fear. That's why i am much more of a service and obedience slave(and a great one, if i do say so myself!) than i am into sceneing and being physically hurt.
But....... if i have one persistent love, it is being spanked, on the butt. Not the legs, not the back, On. The. Ass. The butt is sensually made for spanking. Every stinging blow of a paddle sends shockwaves out from the source, and throughout my body, up through my shoulders and back to my gut, where the butterflies reside. It is all so humiliating and painful, and i hate it. i hate You while You are doing it. All i want, with every fiber of my being in that moment, is for it to stop. And while it makes me scream and yell and squirm and cry, and i beg for it to stop and I hate it and hate You while it's happening, when it is over, and my ass is on fire, and i'm all done screaming and begging and squirming, and i'm catching my breath, it all feels so damn good and content and warm and happy.
It's a conflict.

12/30/2016 6:26:45 AM
A photo of your genitals, and especially multiple photos of your genitals, says a lot about a person, and none of it is very good(this essay is overwhelmingly directed at men; most women don't seem to share this odd affliction).
It screams immaturity, and a singular and complete lack of any self-control whatsoever. 
Dominants are supposed to be leaders. A leader doesn't behave like a child. 
i realize that You are remarkably proud of Yours, but here's the thing: Almost all men have one. 95% of all dicks are perfectly nice. You may be special, but your penis really isn't, and if You think it is, You have not seen enough of them. 
Even the most subservient slave ever isn't shallow enough to fall in love with a dick. Amazingly, we care much more about stuff like responsibility, honor, trust, intelligence, reliability and your smile. Even those looking for no-strings play or a hookup care much more about your overall looks than about the size or appearance of your penis. We know You probably have one. We know it's probably just fine. 
So, Stop behaving like an insecure high school sophomore. Grow up. Lose the dick pics. it doesn't do anything for You. 
Just some free advice. 

Have a lovely day. :-)

*An artful or tastefully done nude shot is not the same thing as a close-up of your damn genitals.*


11/3/2016 5:51:30 AM
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9/7/2016 5:06:43 AM
i was getting ready to leave his place, getting my stuff together. He walked into the bedroom and before i even realized what it was, he immediately pulled the chain gently around the back of my neck, locking it in place in front of me with a tiny lock. 
"This will keep you from forgetting to put your collar on when you get here". 

"Does this come off when i leave today?"

[somewhat incredulously]..."no."

Well, that's that. 
A collared slave, i am. i need to process this. 
it's big and unmistakably there.... and it's kind of heavy, and i always feel it. And i can't take it off. 

:-) :-) :-)




7/2/2016 6:48:38 PM
7/2/16
Exploring the potential of something maybe lovely. 
happily not available until further notice. 

be well. :-)

4/6/2016 8:34:26 AM
“We need to make books cool again. If you go home with somebody and they don't have books, don't fuck them.” 
― John Waters


4/6/2016 6:59:29 AM
Everyone has a right to make money any way they can, as long as it doesn't harm others. I think sex work should be legal and safe for all, instead of criminalized and looked down upon.

That said, i find the 'findomme" craze sweeping this site and others extremely distasteful...and i believe that it is no accident that most of the women here describing themselves as such are very young.
They apparently have no idea of the pure love for this lifestyle that exists. They don''t care about TPE and how deeply it resonates with some, except as a means to separate some poor submissive schlep from his cash...
The entire thing really doesn't affect me, as a submissive woman, since most subs willing to be "findommed" are men, and most "findommes" seek the same. 

If you are a pro-domme, that's great. Then say so. There isn't anything wrong with that. Sceneing can be hard work. Setting up a safe and enjoyable space can be expensive.  If you do it for a living, good for you. 

But the whole "findomme" thing smacks of immature opportunism, to me, with no understanding of what BDSM means, and means very deeply, to many. I find it kind of smarmy, and just a little bit ignorant. 

Sorry, just my opinion.

3/28/2016 10:13:28 AM
i need to talk about trans shit. 
Yeah, i know.
We bore the crap out of everybody, especially when we become outraged over this insult or that slight....i get it.
Everybody's sick and tired of us. Ten years ago, we were the belles of the ball. Now, ya can't swing a dead cat without hitting somebody who's gender non-conforming to some degree, and who, more than likely, is pissed off about something.
And You're all tired of hearing it.
Why can't we just accept the fact that some people will never accept us, and those who do almost all do so with a qualification, rationalization, or an assumption or two? 

Because we can't. You wouldn't.
You don't have to. But you expect me to.
Well, that's just bullshit. 

And i get that in order for this site to allow for categories that would correctly parse the spectrum of extraordinary gender traits, from tomboy or sissy all the way up to those who have had gender conforming surgeries, would be difficult, time consuming and expensive.

But it does get confusing-even for someone like me. It took me a while to figure out that within the world of online BDSM, "Dominant Trans", and a photo of an apparent trans woman more than likely means crossdresser who lives and presents as male(nothing the matter with that either, btw!), most of the time, not a trans woman who happens to be Dominant, unless it's a pro-Domme, in which case, they probably do present as female all or most of the time. 
See?

If it confuses me, i can imagine how some of You feel at times. But the "TV-TS" category on this website is obviously an umbrella term that is so ubiquitous, it could mean a lot of things, which is why i don't use it. "female" is  actually closer to who i am and how i behave.  So, i feel the need to  be a pain in the ass, and differentiate myself a little, if nobody minds....

i transitioned around six years ago, socially. i am "out" everywhere and all of the time. i haven't used a men's restroom in over six years. All of my identification, federal and state, identify me as female. Yes, i am on hormone therapy(it's not polite to ask someone that You hardly know about their medical history, unless they want to tell, you, just a handy FYI). i identify as female. i am sincerely sorry if my doing that here upsets you. i don't want to argue about it. If it bothers You, You will simply need to deal with it. Once in a while, one of You will write, and say something awful. Please don't do that. 

There isn't a darn thing wrong with crossdressers, sissies, gurls or queens, or any other beautiful identity along the sex and gender spectrum, which is far from just binary M or F.
i would never, ever be critical of anybody's likes, or of who they identify as. We are all beautiful, and we are all authentically who we say we are.
it just so happens that i am not any of those things. i do not have any clothing fetishes. i have one fetish, if it can be called a fetish, and that is, being subservient, and following Your rules. Period. That's it. i am turned on by being a slave. i don't call myself a slave here, because having no rights whatsoever is just a bit extreme for me, so "submissive" will have to do. To too many, "slave" means object. i happen to want a little romance, and i happen to want to be kinda treasured. If those disqualify me from slave status, so be it.
That doesn't mean i won't wear that maid's outfit, that kind of whore-y dress You want to see me in, or anything else You tell me to wear. i will. i generally do as i am told. It just means that out in the world, i dress like any average woman of my age and intelligence, and i really don't have any wish to make a fool of myself in public by dressing like a 22 year old. So, you guys with the pantyhose and high heel fetishes might want to look elsewhere. i cannot wear high heels anymore(except for around the house, which i will do, if you tell me to), and i hate hosiery-it's evil and uncomfortable. But again, if you own me, i will wear whatever You tell me to, in private. 

i just want all who are interested to know that i identify as a woman, all of the time, and that i am pre-op. i reveal the status of my genitalia because this is the kind of place where it may be relevant, or become relevant. i don't condone asking random trans ladies about their's. That's not cool.

i'm happy to talk about anything regarding any of this. Just be polite, please. 

That is all.

Thank You, and have a lovely day :-)






3/6/2016 9:41:34 AM
Okay....calling Yourself "Christian Grey" here only makes me burst out laughing. Just sayin...

2/25/2016 5:32:32 AM
Is it really and truly all that difficult to take a few minutes to read one's profile before You contact them, and avoid invariably saying something that reveals that you didn't do anything but look at the photo? 

Yes, apparently. 
It's not the end of the world, surely. But it sure does make the writer look lazy and foolish.

2/25/2016 5:21:38 AM
Far too many, especially men, meet me here, and soon after, want to meet at my place or their's. To which my response is:

Are You out of Your collective minds? 

What would YOU say to your sister, grown daughter, or close friend if she told YOU that she met someone online, and invited them over?

i mean, seriously, people. Be real. 

So, as a public service, that i know will not be read by many, and will be utterly ignored by a significant portion of those who actually do bother, here are my iron clad, no nonsense, non-negotiable rules for meeting people i have met online:

-We talk on the phone, at least once. 


-If the phone chat goes well, we meet in a public space for coffee, a drink, or a meal. Basically, a date of some sort, but a casual one. 

-After that, if we are still mutually interested, and i feel safe, the possibilities are then endless. 

This is not hard, folks. Unless you are dangerously consumed by instant gratification, and have the attention span of a seven year old. 

In which case, i am completely uninterested, anyway. 

Have a lovely day.  :-)

2/25/2016 5:17:58 AM
It appears that almost anyone can call themselves a Dominant, and think that gives them the right to be a rude and inappropriate loudmouth five seconds after they meet somebody. 

No, I will not call you "Sir", or any other honorific. Not yet. I am happy to, once we have gotten to know each other a little bit. But if you begin by barking orders at me, you need to be reminded that you do not own me.
Not yet.
 A true Dominant is patient. He or she waits until there is a mutual compatibility, comfort and a rapport established before asking that some rules be followed. A Dominant who knows what they are doing follows protocol that stresses common sense and patience. They know that this isn't about just barking orders and demanding a level of respect and obedience that they have not earned, yet. If you have rules in place for me to write to you, or get to know you, that's fine. State them up front like a mature adult, not like some petulant child. Don't scream at me in CAPS.

Tell me what you expect, it's what i want and what i need.

But do it without the demeaning names. If that's what you like to do, there will be plenty of time for that. The initial meeting online is for finding out if one is compatible with another. 
Calling yourself a Dominant does not mean you own me.
In truth, it does not mean anything.  
My obedience comes with a price, and the most important aspects of that price, at least initially, are maturity, patience, and just a little bit of class.

If you behave like a narcissistic lunatic, i will leave the conversation.

If You demand that i take my clothes off, or perform any sexual act on myself, and i barely even know Your name, You will be blocked. 

If You think you simply must(and this one is overwhelmingly for men; women don't seem to do this) send me a photo of your pride and joy, Your genitalia, please, please....think again. 
Almost all men have penises. Believe me, 95% of them are perfectly nice. i understand that You have a special bond with Yours, and that You are extremely proud of it. If i am in a relationship with You, i will grow to love it as much as You do. But sending a girl a penis shot one day after You met her reveals a serious lack of self-control. 
And to me, a Dominant person is ALL about control.  i am supposed to admire and look up to You for leadership. If You behave like high school kid, none of that is going to happen. 

i am sorry about the rant. I grow weary of children masquerading as Dominants.


Have a lovely day.  :-)



2/25/2016 5:16:42 AM
If one is a trans woman, and has their search set for those interested in the same, one will often be sent profiles that assume, apparently, that she is cis, gay, male, a cross dresser, or any combination thereof.

The rightly accepted fact that who one is and who one wants are separate things seems to be lost in a pile of assumptions and annoying judgments. 
It is a frustrating thing, and it is coming from those who really should know better. Not the individual members, as i begrudge no one their likes, but the site itself.

Just sayin'.

2/25/2016 5:11:54 AM

My comments about long-distance relationships are on my profile for a very good reason, and i am pretty firm about them. i am never, ever going to live anywhere else but the city in which i currently reside. Never. i am very happy here, and i work here, as well. i am not looking forward to a relationship, no matter how wonderful the other person may be, where phone calls and missing them most of the time, and hoping we live in the same place someday soon are what make up the majority of the time in the relationship. i do not want to do that. Please don't tell me that You "spend a lot of time in NYC", You "have relatives here", or "come here on business a lot" You need to LIVE here. All the time. If You think that's unreasonable, okay, then it is. It's how i feel, and i'm allowed.  i also do not drive, or own an automobile, by choice. i want a relationship where i can visit the person i am with after work, spend my weekends with them, and make spontaneous plans to do things together.

 

Seriously, unless You already have definite plans to live permanently in NYC, very soon(or in the metropolitan area), i just don't have the desire or the wherewithal to do what would be required. If that's a personal failing, so be it.


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 Age: 34
 North Augusta, South Carolina