2/15/2018 9:22:37 AM: Someone sent me a message a few days ago and he had a common bdsm picture on his page that I’ve seen before.  I asked him about it and he claimed it was his picture, taken in a scene from a few days prior.  I put the picture on Tineye and it had about 30 hits. Some dating back to 2014.  What is so hard in just saying “ I enjoyed the picture“. Why lie about something so silly?  

1/10/2018 6:21:08 PM: People here will take offense to anything.  I suppose this site isn’t to blame.  Being “offended“ is the fad in America these days.  I don’t offend easily, if at all.  I can’t even sit here and think about a situation where another person offended me.  I suppose with the stress of my job I have learned how to build a mental barrier of sorts.  Not much offends me or scares me.  Child fatalities at work still get under my skin but that’s just being human.  If something that shocking doesn’t make a person uneasy I’d be worried about him/her.Anyways my reason for posting...someone from here was offended when he found out I use a cheap cellphone to communicate on the phone instead of my personal phone.  I’m sorry...I’m not giving out my personal phone number to someone I recently met on the internet.  It’s not happening.  Yes bdsm revolves around trust, but trust isn’t magically built in a week.  My safety is my main priority.  I know the risks associated with bdsm and especially online.  I’m not going to deviate from the safety measures I’ve put in place. 

12/2/2017 12:27:14 AM: Time to make a update.  I’ve said this before in my journals....I prefer to be the person making first contact with someone here.  There are a ton of qualities and traits that I’m looking for in someone and I can decifer profiles extremely well.  I know exactly the type of person I wish to communicate with and I know the exact type of people I wish to avoid...that frequent bdsm forums/websites.  I will not share details because I don’t need someone writing what they think I want to read.  Communicating with me is very much like taking a MMPI 2....I’m carefully paying attention and looking beyond just words.  My safety is my main priority.  A lot of people use bdsm as a cover for several hidden agendas.  A lot of people are here looking for a quick hook up.  A majority of the people here claim years of bdsm experience but come to find out that “experience“ is how many years they have been masturbating to bdsm porn.  A few people are here for very ill intentions.  A select few of the people here are actually sane and looking for what they claim.  I have come across every type of person here...and like I said I know exactly what I’m looking for....and I’ll prefer to be the one making contact.

9/25/2017 3:04:10 PM: To my friends here:  I’m on vacation this week and currently in Honduras and have internet access but it is satellite and very slow.  I can be reached by kik but I may not respond right away, but I will when I get time.  Everyone else:  I am not on much as stated above I’m on vacation and we all know how terrible this site is with lag issues.  I have 1 gig internet at home and still lag on here...so I have tried responding to some messages but it sometimes takes 5 times of reloading the site.Have a sweet day!

7/10/2017 2:03:28 AM: I think I've had enough of the bullshit on here, time for a break.