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I am a Dominant loving Sadist looking for a submissive/slave masochist.? I have been in the lifestyle since my 20's and am seeking a new partner.? I am open to race and body types, but she must be fully submissive, not just in the bedroom; I am also not looking for a doormat.
I want a strong independent woman who also wishes to give herself fully to her Master in a loving relationship. She will of course be listened to in most matters, but in the end it will be my rules and desires that will be paramount within our D/s agreement.? Right now, I am wanting to talk to various potential partners and see if there is any chemistry.? While I seek a 24/7 type of relationship it does not mean I want a woman naked, chained in my home all day.? You will have a real life in the vanilla world,? working, with friends, etc.? However, if I instruct you to wear no panties or a bra when we go out in public, then I expect obedience.? I have had my slave dress very nicely for a dinner at a wonderful high end french restaurant wearing her large leather training collar as well.? In your career and with your family our relationship will remain private unless you wish to share it, I will not require it. The same will go in regards to my family.? This does not mean you will not show respect toward me while around them, think of it as a 1950's type of household interaction if it helps.?
As to sexual matters, you cede your body to me within our D/s agreement which would be negotiated between us, but unchangeable without my consent once made. Does this mean I will desire that you go find a high school student and give them a blowjob? No.? I don't live in fantasy, but in a reality based BDSM lifestyle.? I have high school age? boys, they don't know or participate in my lifestyle nor will they ever, unless they are much older and find it on their own (this does not mean you would ever be involved sexually or submissive to them)
I am highly educated having obtained my Doctorate of Law, but have not practived in many years.? I live in the North Houston area, in my own home with my two sons and a roommate (for at least this year). I am a large man, but getting smaller with help of diet and exercise.
I used to be very active in the Houston BDSM scene, but due to life circumstances, I was forced to back off for a number of years.? I have experience in a variety of practices and love bringing my partners both pleasure and pain (within their limits). Bondage is also a huge part of my makeup although that can be actual bonds as well as mental ones.While I enjoy inflicting pain, it is only with those who enjoy pain and to their limits.? This can be as simple as spanking, light biting, light slapping, etc.? It can also be pain at a much higher level should those be the levels they enjoy and need for subspace. I have tried many types of interactions, but I am not into cutting, although I do enjoy knife play especially with "rape" fantasy play.? I do not like needles in in form or fashion, I have no tattoos and do not plan to get any or have may partner get any unless it is something she desires and I agree upon.? I am not into children, animals, age play, vomit play or stranger play.? I am curious about golden showers, but to be honest, I have never been able to bring myself to urinate on anyone, even in the shower.? I do enjoy humiliation (light), public sex, outdoor bondage and sex, and rape play and a variety of other fetish and kinks.
To make it clear.? I am NOT looking for someone who has read Fifty Shades of Gray recently (or any similar book), think that it sounds like fun and wish to give it a try.? If you want someone with experience to use you a few times to see if you like it, I might be interested.? However, what I am seeking is a long term partner, hopefully for life, who understands their position in my life is beneath me in whatever fashion I so choose, within the boundaries we have agreed upon.? In return you will get a loving sadist as a partner who will care for you and provide the control you seek.
If you need someone to vouch for me there are those in the Houston BDSM community who do know me.
The picture is me, but not a new picture.? It was professionally done so I like it.? I look pretty much the same, a little grey in the eyebrows, very few on my head.
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Where to start? I truly hate the first part of finding a new partner. I love it when I get it narrowed down and start to get to know them better to see of there is a connection. I tend to be very monotonous when it comes to relationships. My last relationship was for almost 12 years and the one before that was almost 10.
If you have read my profile you will see I listed as being expert as nothing. I am always learning new things both in my time with my partners and from others, therefore I don't consider myself an expert. I have extensive experience however. |
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| Age: 38 |
| Oak Park,
Illinois |
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