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The Jersey I am wearing is just a Jersey!!! I don't care what team it came from!!
I came here looking for a Dom to learn from and try Real time BDSM. Have been interested for years, and finally want to explore. I am interested in the physical, mental, spiritual, and emotional part. Also the TPE is very interesting. Another friend here found a dom to see, and I thought I would try. I have been contacted by so many - from the really clueless to the really knowledgeable. I still find the 20 year old doms who contact me the funniest when they try to tell me how they know all there is about ds.
Where my interest is? I DON"T KNOW. I will see as time goes forward. Yes I have seen BDSM videos and talked to others, and I find them interesting to watch. I like the Dom / SUB dynamic, and want to explore this. NO I DON'T know what I am interested in trying until I experience things. DO NOT ask me for a list of things I want to explore. If you do I know you never bothered to read my profile.
TIME TO START WEEDING THINGS DOWN.Yes this list is insane - but needed stating with all the "requests" or "orders" I am getting.
I AM NOT GOING TO RELOCATE.
I AM NOT GOING TO SEE A DOM OLDER THEN 47 (EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU ARE GOD'S GIFT TO DOMS), AND FROM WHAT I SEE NOT SEEING ONE UNDER 31 EVEN THOUGH YOU SAY YOU ARE THE THE PERFECT DOM. ALSO HOLDING THE WEIGHT TO 210 OR UNDER. I AM SMALL AND NOT LOOKING FOR A LARGE DOM. JUST A PERSONAL PREFERENCE. I AM LOOKING FOR EXPERIENCE NOT JUST PLAY.
I AM NOT GOING TO CALL YOU ON THE PHONE RIGHT AWAY.
I FIND NO NEED TO GO TO PRIVATE CHAT JUST BECAUSE YOU INVITED ME - ESPECIALLY IF I NEVER TALKED TO YOU BEFORE
I AM NOT GOING TO SKYPE OR CAM WITH YOU JUST BECAUSE YOU WANT IT.
I AM NOT GOING TO MEET YOU TOMORROW.
I DON'T SEE A NEED TO GIVE YOU MY CELL NUMBER SO YOU CAN TEXT ME.
NOT GOING TO ANSWER STUPID QUESTIONS OR ONE WORD EMAILS ANY MORE.
NO NEED TO TELL YOU MY LIMITS, WHAT I CAN DO TO YOU SEXUALLY, OR HOW I LIKE TO GET FUCKED
I AM NOT GOING TO SEND YOU MORE PICTURES BECAUSE YOU ASK FOR THEM.
I DON'T KNOW WHY YOU NEED TO KNOW WHAT I AM WEARING, OR WHEN THE LAST TIME I HAD SEX. IF YOU NEED TO ASK STUPID QUESTIONS, I JUST FOUND THE BLOCK BUTTON.
I am looking to learn and explore. I have seen videos and read stories, and find it all exciting and interesting. I am NOT looking for a couple, to be a live in slave, or to relocate. I am here looking for a dom to learn from. I classify myself as bi -- but I am more bi-curios. I have no interest in a domme, and would be interested in a possible 3 some or other with another fem in the future.
OK Adding that I am not looking for a dom over 48, or one younger then me.. Also I am NOT going to relocate out of the metro NY area at this stage of the game.
NO scat, animals, children, permanent marks, or severe abuse wanted.
YES I have many other pictures. No I am not going to send them to you if I don't know you, or don't need to send them to you. YES I have a webcam. NO I will NOT turn it on because you told me to.
Now I am new to this. I have been reading a lot and talking to others a lot. There has been an inner want to explore this lifestyle for a year. The more I read the more my interest peaks.
I am single, with no kids, live on Long Island, and have a room mate. I do work in Manhattan. I am a researcher. The company I work for does research projects. No I am not going to tell you what the projects are. I like to go out with friends, and have no problem going to a bar or a bowling alley or a park. I love to jog in the nice weather, and work out at a gym all year round.
I enjoy meeting people. I am very friendly and out going. I am totally open minded, but not in any rush. If I want to meet you, I will let you know. I do not have the time to meet every guy who sends me a note, and wants to meet. Same reason for Skype. I don't have the time to sit on camera with every guy here.
I got interested in this a few years ago. Read a lot, and saw many videos of DS play. I found that this type of play excites me. I am glad to talk to doms and subs. Still trying to find out what I want, and what I want to experience. I have never been with a dom, but I am NOT a virgin.
WHY AM I LIMITING MYSELF?? Pretty simple. I see no purpose in seeing a dom in Pennsylvania, Upstate NY, Dubai, or California. I know New Jersey and Connecticut are just across the water, but at this time I think it would be pointless to see a dom who is a long drive away. I am looking for a local dom on the Long Island area, preferably Nassau County. If I find there is no dom for me to see in Nassau County, then I will expand my search. I am not looking to be owned by anyone.
To those who complain about chatting with me. . . . Well I am answering emails now and trying to answer all but rude messages. If I don't drop everything to go in private chat with you, that does not mean I am a fake. It means that I am answering mail, and not able to go private, busy, or I don't have a reason to go chat with you just because you want it. I do work and do have a life outside of this site. Yes some of my answers in mail are short and to the point. When you have pages of messages, there just is not enough time to write a book back to all. More will come in time.
Those that obviously didn't read my profile.
Those I never talked with before who send me a friend request, and then complain or tell me I am not real because I ignored it.
Those that need to ask me stupid questions.
Those that need to send me a picture of a penis and tell me it is theirs.
Those that need to tell me they are "well endowed".
Those that pull the race card as to who is better. Like telling me I need to see a black dom for the real deal.
Those that need to have another girl's picture, or a bondage item on their profile to show what an amazing dom they are or to impress others
Those that demand I call them sir or other title just because they think they are a dom
Those that are 18 years old who tell me what a great dom they are
LAZY PEOPLE WHO CAN'T TAKE 2 MINUTES TO READ MY PROFILE, AND ASK ME THE QUESTIONS THAT ARE THERE - I just found out I can see if you did
Those that can't even take the time to put something in their own profile. Nothing is listed which shows me a lot
Those that call me names because I won't meet them today, or call them today, or go private chat with them today
Those I don't know who just keep wanting to go on Skype
Just a few items I am dealing with
I am happy to talk with other subs in the area. You guys seem to know more then the doms here.