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I am an Alpha Sub. In case you aren't aware of the vocab, here's a small lesson.
I am successful in life and my career. I work hard and long hours. I am ambitious, driven, organized and intelligent. Even with the craziest of schedules, I will always find time to make sure my Dom has everything He needs. I need communication from my partner. We will both be busy, but that little note saying "Thinking of You" will go a long way with me. If you're into the Myers-Briggs Personality Test, I'm an INTJ.
Like everyone I have two sides.
While I am the sane kind of Type A personality, I am also very sweet-natured, caring, gentle and VERY affectionate. I am the person who will openly give you a hug when meeting.
A man in a well-tailored suit will get much farther with me than someone sending me a dick picture hoping i'm impressed. If you send the dick pic, i'm just going to laugh, ignore and potentially block you.
If you ever have seen the movie "Morning Glory", I am literally the real-life version of Rachel McAdams's character. I am the lovable person, who is a little socially awkward and the eternal optimist asking how I can make things better. When I ask if you are okay or say "I'm sorry", I genuinely mean it. There are times where I lack self-confidence. In these times, it is literally just me working things out in my head. Damn that analytical thinking lol.
The type of Dom for me
I am attracted to highly intelligent men who like me, are driven, ambitious, successful and very much an Alpha Dom between the ages of 30-43ish. He will understand the dynamics of a D/s relationship. He will not be intimidated by a sub who is very strong-willed in nature. In the vanilla world, this couple could take on the world and laugh at it.
Someone with a sense of humor is a must. We both have stressful lives and being able to sit back and laugh with a glass of wine at times will be welcomed. Please live near or in the New England area. I travel enough for work, I want to be able to come home and serve.
I am not looking for some casual hookup or one-night stand.
If you want to get to know me, reach out with something more than "Hey" in your message. Make an effort."
Please know that while I am not a racist of any kind, I tend not to be sexually attracted to Indian or African-American men.
General Interest:
- I am a competitve archer
- Love playing chess (Insert nerd comment here)
- I am a software developer (no, I can't fix your computer ;) )
- I love to swim
- I speak several languages, all are unintelligible when in sub space.
Kink Interest:
- I am exploring my masochistic side, I will NOT play to "Red".
- Sensual Play - anything soft, furry. Bring on the tingly goosebumps!
- Bondage - rope, oh yes... ties, scarves
- Impact Play - Thudy things please
- Hair pulling -mmm
- I experience Drop. - Know and understand this before playing with me.
Limits
- Blood
- Electrocution
- Watersports
- Scat
- Needles
- Infidelity (If you're married and she doesn't consent, don't even think about it)
If you are a submissive man, please DO NOT contact me and ask me to Domme you. It is not going to happen. More than happy to be a friend, but nothing past that.
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Why I don't do online relationships...
Perfect example....
There are frauds out there. There are men who will lie to take advantage. There are men who will impersonate others to try to gain the trust of someone.
Such a lovely example of a person like this is majordadarmy
For those who haven't come in contact with this individual, he contacted me over the span of about 5 months. He was always "deployed". Could never meet in person. Kept trying to convince me that I need to submit to him online first, that was all he could offer.
Seems a little suspicious to me.
Then he made a fatal mistake - he sent a picture.
This picture was a picture posted all over the internet as a meme. The words on the cardboard sign had been photoshopped. This person chose to impersonate a member of our armed forces to try to get someone to trust him. This is one of the lowest things that you can ever do in my opinion.
Of course, after being called out, he has not responded, but I do feel it important to warn others. He has no information of mine.
But let this be a warning to others, I am smart and I will find out about lies. I will not do an online relationship. If you want me, you better be willing to step up the plate and meet me. PERIOD.
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This is addressed to the Dom who contacted me and decided that everything I said was irrelevant and only for Him to decide if my opinions, feelings or needs actually mattered and that I was to blindly obey without questioning his superiority.
Fuck Off!
You read my profile and contacted me to tell me that I am incorrect in what I call myself and no such thing as "Alpha Sub" exists. You say that me attending munches and rope events are indecent and artificial and you demand that I not attend.
You dare judge my friendships because I choose to spend my time with people who are in this lifestyle rather than those you would approve of.
My kink is not your kink, that does not make mine bad, wrong or degrading.
My opinions Do matter
You do Not own me unless I allow you to
You have no right to demand anything of me.
I am NOT scared of you.
You need to learn the value of a sub and understand that NO woman is going to blindly bow before you without knowing you. Until you learn to respect others, you will never be respected. |
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