Obligatory warnings:

Since I am not YOUR mistress, just call me Ms. A for now. If you are lying to your partner about your participation in this lifestyle I am not interested in having you serve me. I am not a pro domme, although I do enjoy using the dungeons at Pandora's box. If you send me a one line email I will delete it. Unless it's a very funny one line.

About me: 

I live with my fabulous understanding husband in Brooklyn. He knows about my participation in the lifestyle. I work and am also in school so I do not have a lot of time for kink unfortunately. I need someone patient with my full schedule. I am looking to build relationships with people long term, not sure what that looks like yet. I am interested in impact play, bondage, 'forced' bi, anal training, orgasm control, humiliation, chauffeur duties, errand running and edging. I enjoy being spoiled. Especially if it is getting my husband and me dinner, that feels cuckoldy (is that even a word) in a way that I really like.  I don't need a housecleaner unless you are female. It is less about specific actions and more about the electric feeling as someone says 'yes mistress ' and 'please hit me harder Mistress'. As they twist in their bonds.

I want someone who can communicate openly honestly and has their emotional life in order. Jealously won't work since I will have multiple partners. I'm not interested in scat or watersports or online play. Don't ask. I don't allow subs to worship my body. I do not use strapons.  I always use and respect safe words. I have a blog Searchingforasub.blogspot.com

I like to read science fiction and fantasy. Some of my favorites are Jacqueline Carey and Terry Pratchett.I'm involved with my Jewish community I am Ivy League educated. I work in the medical field so I will never share face photos.