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| You know that couple that controls the room? Not by volume or by demanding attention, but by natural charm and charisma? That couple that, separately, ruled their cliques and together became irresistible?
That's us.
We are exactly as good as advertised- that's why we don't have to demand you kneel before us in the first email- give it time, you'll find it's just easier. More comfortable. That it's just... right.
We are Mike and Jillian, a male dominant Master/slave couple. He's a dominant sadist biker-type, she's a smart, funny, and masochistic beauty with purple hair, together we head a motley crew of friends/chosen family lovingly called the pack. Currently, we're looking for a submissive female for friendship and potentially more. Jillian is new to polyamory, so we're looking to go slowly.
We have a tumblr account she updates fairly often- http://twosociopathsinlove.tumblr.com
We try hard to be an open book- feel free to ask any questions you'd like and we'll likely answer.
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From time to time, we get angry messages saying we must not be that great if we're still looking.
I pity those that consider the destination all that matters- we've spent wonderful time with lovely girls, made many new friends, and had satisfying, if temporary, relationships.
Finding a third is not our definition of happiness, though. Sharing our life is a gift, not a goal. |
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Lately, it seems like a switch might fit us perfectly. Someone who can be over Jillian but below me and thrives in that position... |
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We were recently talking to a girl, who seemed to be a rather good fit for us. We're a bit clingy, a bit co-dependent, enjoy constant contact, and she fit well there. She was funny, at times, and our kinks all lined up well. It's safe to say she was the best potential match we'd found...
Until she started talking about work.
It turns out, having a shitty work ethic is a huge turn-off to both of us. This girl spent hours whining about how she was the only one to do anything at work, and how they don't respect her, complaining and bitching about how she should be given more responsibility and she should be in charge.
None of that is a problem- Hell, if you're working harder, doing more, and NOT in charge, I see how that's a pain. However, when I mentioned I was still at work and she realized I'd been there ten hours, her response was "There's no way I'd ever work more than my seven and a half- I'm not doing anything extra!"
Now I know why you're not in charge. I know why you're not respected. I know why no one cares if you complain.
I do not expect the bare minimum, from myself or others. If that's your idea of acceptable, more power to you- but you do not fit into our life. |
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Answers to a few questions we get pretty often...
1) If you're so great, why are you still here?
This one makes me sad. We're still looking because we're looking for the right person, not just the first person. Four years ago yesterday I sent Jillian a message on CollarMe, the predecessor to CollarSpace. We weren't the first person either of us had talked to, or gotten close to, from the site... but the others weren't right. The right person takes the time it takes- and I do not settle.
2) Why no picture?
Jillian is five three, pocket-sized, and has a dangerous stalker. We're happy to share pictures, but posting them publicly is not going to happen. I could post pictures of just me, but we're a package deal.
3) Would you consider a male sub?
Short answer, no. Longer answer is I'm not attracted to men, and Jillian isn't interested in other men, so it's not something we see happening. We wish you the best of luck in your search.
4) Would you consider a couple?
Short answer, no. Longer answer is again, I've got no interest in men, and while I've served the role of bull in the past, it's not a long-term interest.
5) Don't you really want a dominant female to control the relationship?
Thank you, no. I've got things quite in hand. I'd be ecstatic to find a sadistic lady with the heart of a slave to help me torment Jillian, but don't expect to see me kneel. |
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Ok boys and girls,
New policy- mail from men goes to bulk. If you're female but use a male account to avoid being inundated with bullshit, take that into consideration.
Best of luck to all the men out there, but you're not part of our plan. |
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Dear men who write,
If your intent is to convince Jillian to leave me, you have miscalculated. You see, she prefers men who are not pathetic worms begging for someone's attention.
Best of luck,
Mike |
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We took a trip this weekend for my youngest cousins wedding. The morning of we were recruited to help, because her friends are all a little young and flaky. A morning of directing barely-legal girls was certainly fun for us.
At the end of the night, Jillian began to laugh. There were half a dozen girls dancing, every action from each of them screaming they wanted to fuck. We watched boys try their moves and find themselves driven back, a pack of horny girls apparently too much for them. Every signal the girls were throwing said "Please, show me you're a man."
The boys scattered- that was why Jillian laughed. I felt that primal scream welling up- but then I looked at my cousin, resplendent in white. She knows I'm me- but she didn't deserve her cousin and his girlfriend throwing a bridesmaids orgy. No matter how eager they were for our approval, or to please us, some things are worth restraining yourself for.
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A few months ago, we had conversations turn serious with a girl. We were in constant contact, she'd started to turn her life over to us, and it seemed like the beginning of a triad.
She disappeared without a word- a four year old account here abandoned completely, no responses on other avenues. Not unheard of, really- and as a formerly single guy I remember well how this dance goes... but I wonder about her- did something terrible happen to her? Did she get cold feet? Jillian and I talk about her, sometimes, wondering what might have been.
I like to think she found someone she couldn't resist and is living happily ever after. I know that's incredibly unlikely, but it's my hope.
Just early morning ramblings. |
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It's so cute when people say "Talk to me as an equal" in their profile.
I have no equal.
Really, if I wasn't so fucking amazingly humble, I'd be unbearable.
:) |
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You've always said "Do whatever you want." You have always wanted to give up control, to find the freedom that only comes from being totally, completely owned.
Time and again you say it. Sometimes, if you're lucky, they'll give you a half-assed spanking. Once in a blue moon, someone with a decent toy chest will tie you up, clamp your nipples, and fuck you without worrying about your pleasure. And that's nice...
But it isn't what you want.
You want someone to change you, from the inside. Someone who will not just force your body to comply, but who will change your mind until you can't help yourself. Who will leave you fuzzy, confused, needing, aching...
Controlled.
Careful what you wish for. |
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If you have some form of disclaimer on your profile telling "Universities" they can't use the information for research gathering... I probably won't message you. If you're young, I might forgive it, but if you're an adult and you think that's necessary/helpful in any way... |
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One of the questions people ask is "What are you looking for in a third?"
A wonderful question with a complicated answer- the short version is we're open to whatever feels right. The right person, who fits with us, is the most important part. Open minded, honest, submissive, fun... nail those four and we can probably find ways to interact.
But what about specifics? Like I said, we're open... to steal from Whitman, we are vast- we contain multitudes. Our kinks are numerous and varied- and there are so many roles a submissive can fill... for example...
You could be a "sister-slave" to her- a loved, cherished, princess who's also a paintoy, fuckmeat, and completely owned. This is for more long-term relationships, of course.
We could use a domestic bitch. A naked little slut crawling around and cleaning, feeling the eyes of visitors on her- cooking, serving the house, sleeping in a cage... perhaps locked in chastity.
Chastity? That could be fun- a toy, locked away, unlocked and teased to the edge of orgasm over and over, day after day... constantly denied the euphoric release... of course, that could also be a component of any relationship.
Or how about the opposite of chastity? Being a pure fuck toy- open holes for anyone we choose to let use them. Being the featured attraction at a party, tied down, blindfolded, and fucked over and over by strangers...
What about being changed on a deep level? Having new kinks and desires implanted in you? Becoming a programmed toy, knowing that there's nothing you can do about it... perhaps we'll turn you into a fucking machine, wanting nothing more than to wear a strap on and give pleasure. Or craving eating pussy, needing it as much as you need air, physical pain manifesting if you can't bury your tongue deep in a tight pussy... or ass...
There are infinite possibilities- you are not "too weird" for us.
We hope to hear from you soon! |
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Hard Limits:
Libertarianism
That'll make me laugh every time. The one political party that openly supports BDSM... |
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Ways to lose my interest, part one: ignore when Jillian writes you and only answer me.
Seriously... that's just sad. |
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| Age: 41 |
| Enschede,
Netherlands |
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