I have a stylized pic of me only because it could affect those I work with if I had a clear picture on here. I am discretely but fairly openly BDSM in my personal life (go to BDSM functions Etc.)
I am naturally Dominant both in personality and sexual identity. I'm charismatic, passionate, intelligent, well-adjusted, quick witted, and sometimes intimidating. Ideas and experiences excite me. I own my own successful business, am self-reliant, grew up in a good home, and have strong moral values. I have a broad spectrum of outside interests: art, politics, theater, film, fine food, the outdoors, sports, philosophy, music, etc.
I've been in this world for ages and consider myself as being born both Dominant and kinky. I've shown many woman over the years what it means to relinquish control to another and the vulnerablity and trust that comes in serving and obeying.
I enjoy both playing with those experienced as much as training those who are new. Opening the minds of others and facilitating a sub finally exploring her deepest fantasies and seeing her become the kneeling naked, collar and leashed, fully supplicant soul she always knew she was is deeply enjoyable and rewarding.
Do feel free to say hello.
4/24/2016 1:21:16 PM
Judging from conversations I've had with subs, sadly it seems the vast majority of guys on here now are bullshitters. They're in it just for the sex, titillation, and the novelty with no understanding of the philosophy, responsibility, interactivity, artistry, mastery, etc. For me, this isn't just "for kicks," thought he kicks are certainly an element, but this is part of my identity and as inherent to me as heterosexuality, and just like any non-mainstream or hetero-vanilla-normative identity, involves actual struggles when in vanilla relationships.
4/24/2016 1:02:13 PM
One interest beyond finding a sub / slave for longer term, is hosting a sub or slave for a week / weekend of intense BDSM. Also potentially hosting a sub for the summer.
8/24/2015 1:52:47 PM
I've been training in boxing 4 days a week - mostly heavy bag and sit ups.
So I'm looking more muscular and fit than my pictures - which are obviously deliberately made so I'm not easily identifiable for work reasons.
7/12/2015 12:46:48 PM
Really tired of writing a well thought out messages, only for them to go unread. So far, 5 out of the last 7 are showing unread. On the flip side, I have a 50%+ response rate.
Still, spending a lot of time to write something original every time only for it to go unread in 70%+ of cases is certainly a disincentive, to the point that I'm losing the enthusiasm to in writing messages beyond three or four sentence, much less the 3 or more original paragraphs I did write.
7/9/2015 7:23:37 PM
Because of the number of fakes and likely being catfished, after chatting or exchanging messages One or two times, I'm going to ask that you in some way verify that you are a real person. Not necessarily give away who you are, but just show you're real by either:
-Talking a selfie with a piece of paper saying something to confirm you are a female and the person pictured (so holding a white page with writing over your face or a neck down pic is fine)
-Talking by phone or computer,
At this point, it's been six or seven times that I invested significant time over numerous chat sessions only for the sub I've been communicating with to disappear completely right before anything that would verify they exist. This after ample biographical details, which on face check out, were exchanged which makes it more bizarre.
Profile names of some of those that literally dropped off the face of the planet after extensive chatting: MorganandKara, LittleLizzieMD, Onthe15thofMay, GabrielleAlex, EllasWorld.