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The pic is a stylized version of me that I used purely because I have a high profile position
Male Dominant, 36,  Los Angeles, California US

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 Dominant Male

 Los Angeles 


 6' 1"

 175 lbs





Actively Seeking:

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The pic is a stylized version of me that I used purely because I have a high profile position in my industry and it would affect people other than just myself if I openly advertised myself on here though in my personal life, I am openly into BDSM, am a member of a dungeon, and attend kink functions fairly regularly. 


I am naturally Dominant both in personality and sexual identity - charismatic, passionate, and intimidating. 

I consider myself as being born kink, but it was about 15 years ago that I organized my feelings and thoughts into realizing my Dominant identity.   Since then, I've done practically everything. 

I'm multi-dimensional as a person so of course I am that way with BDSM, consequently, There are multiple different dynamics in this lifestyle I enjoy.

I consider controlling a sub an art that uses a woman's psychology, emotions, hopes, passions, fantasies, and desires to create a masterwork.  It's really special when a powerful, intelligent, educated, well raised woman submits to being a pet / slave / object / slut / little girl etc. all because my firm hand led them there and willed it so. 


In my day-to-day life, I am extremely intelligent, kind, comedic, caring, and charismatic. Ideas and experiences excite me.  I own my own successful business, am self-reliant, grew up in a good home, and have strong moral values.  I have a broad spectrum of outside interests:  art, politics, theater, film, fine food, the outdoors, sports, philosophy, music, etc.  

Do feel free to write me just to say hi and if you're a newbie looking for someone to answer questions, I do enjoy mentoring others. 

Journal Entries:
4/24/2016 1:21:16 PM
Judging from conversations I've had with subs, sadly it seems the vast majority of guys on here now are bullshitters.  They're in it just for the sex, titillation, and the novelty with no understanding of the philosophy, responsibility, interactivity, artistry, mastery, etc.  For me, this isn't just "for kicks," thought he kicks are certainly an element, but this is  part of my identity and as inherent to me as heterosexuality, and just like any non-mainstream or hetero-vanilla-normative identity, involves actual struggles when in vanilla relationships. 

4/24/2016 1:02:13 PM
One interest beyond finding a sub / slave for longer term, is hosting a sub or slave for a week / weekend of intense BDSM.  Also potentially hosting a sub for the summer.  

8/24/2015 1:52:47 PM
I've been training in boxing 4 days a week - mostly heavy bag and sit ups.

So I'm looking more muscular and fit than my pictures - which are obviously deliberately made so I'm not easily identifiable for work reasons.  

7/12/2015 12:46:48 PM
Really tired of writing a well thought out messages, only for them to go unread.   So far, 5 out of the last 7 are showing unread.  On the flip side, I have a 50%+ response rate. 

Still, spending a lot of time to write something original every time only for it to go unread in 70%+ of cases is certainly a disincentive, to the point that I'm losing the enthusiasm to in writing messages beyond three or four sentence, much less the 3 or more original paragraphs I did write. 

7/9/2015 7:23:37 PM
Because of the number of fakes and likely being catfished, after chatting or exchanging messages One or two times, I'm going to ask that you in some way verify that you are a real person. Not necessarily give away who you are, but just show you're real by either: -Talking a selfie with a piece of paper saying something to confirm you are a female and the person pictured (so holding a white page with writing over your face or a neck down pic is fine) -Skyping, -Talking by phone or computer, At this point, it's been six or seven times that I invested significant time over numerous chat sessions only for the sub I've been communicating with to disappear completely right before anything that would verify they exist. This after ample biographical details, which on face check out, were exchanged which makes it more bizarre. Profile names of some of those that literally dropped off the face of the planet after extensive chatting: MorganandKara, LittleLizzieMD, Onthe15thofMay, GabrielleAlex, EllasWorld.

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