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I am married.
formerly on here as Aine with one single profile since 2005 until recently, when someone decided to create so many profiles with my name in it, that all profiles with my original name were banned. My profile was the first Aine on here, no other bits to it, just Aine. That is the name I still use in chat. My husband does not use this profile. Never has. He has always been aware of this profile. Hes just not the online chatter type.
He is BDSM aware, and is involved with me in my kinks. We are largely undefined between each other, as were growing constantly. But things are progressing and things will be updated more as things become clear to us. Though as with any pairing of people, we match in a lot of ways, more than I ever hoped to, but not in all things. But thats what keeps things ultra interesting, nay?
Perfectly imperfect, and thats how he likes me.
Not opposed to meeting people on a platonic level, coffee, hanging out, make friends, exchange intelligent discourse (and of course utter silliness at times) about ideas on life in general.
Dont treat labels AS definitions. Treat them as words WITH definitions. And your definitions arent everyone elses definitions.
You cant live a positive life, with a negative mind.
To attempt perfection is to guarantee failure.
To attempt personal best is to guarantee both success and failure.
To attempt personal best is to learn from failure to create success.
I cannot teach anybody anything, I can only make them think. Socrates
Insanity doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. Albert Einstein
Askhole Someone who constantly asks for your advice, yet always does the opposite of what you told them.
Communication, Compatibility before Commitment.
Equal in WorthInequal in Authority
Dont ever mistake my silence for ignorance, my calmness for acceptance, and my kindness for weakness.
I prove myself in my actions, my ideas, and my consistency and striving to always improve. Not by what pop-lines I can spit.
That anticipation feeling that many mistake for fear? Yeah. That makes me smile and giggle.
If youve never been to a food establishment, you read the menu. The ination is there, offered to you for your perusal and consideration, so that you can make an ined decision. If something is not clear, you ask pointed and specific questions for clarity on a particular thing on that menu to make an even more ined decision. You dont just walk in and ask someone who may or may not work there what the entire menu is and what each little tidbit about each thing on the menu is. -- In Other Words. Do Your Homework. Take Advantage Of Whats Already There For You To Read
Respect goes all ways. If you do not care how you affect others, then you have no actual respect, even basic common courtesy for other people. Dont expect any in return if you honestly do not care and cant adjust to your surroundings while still not sacrificing who you are.
To be honest with others, one must first be honest with themselves. Do not fear honesty, embrace it. For if you can not, others will see you as false, and treat you thusly.
Respect is something earned, and something very easily lost. Something that seems to have fallen through the cracks. Or perhaps its just something that Im noticing more and more as I get older.
People who show respect, get respect. Those that show a complete lack thereof, will get politely turned away.
A mind for detail is also a wonderful thing. People who notice things, and are sensitive to those small things are noticed by others as someone worth speaking to. Personal conduct is becoming a lost art, which is quite sad. Its not just about what you project to others, its a combination of what you project and what you absorb from others.
A good listener is something rare these days as well. Someone who is attentive, retains things, instead of just having things to add. Everything ties into another, yet few seem to get that. One leads to another or goes hand in hand if you will.
Its something that should be applied to all parts of our lives, and is seemingly sadly left at the door when people enter into this lifestyle and add it to their already existent lifestyles. Its as though everything that theyve learned up to the point that they find this Lifestyle is suddenly null and void or something not worth hanging on to.
Why? Eh, just another question that I dont think will get answered anytime soon.
What drives me is ination, being a student of life. I love being the spectator, the audience, the listener of tales and histories and opinions and life and death. I love studying human nature in its raw s, the beautiful, the ugly, the awesome and fearsome. The imperfections that create everything in us and around us, and embracing those imperfections that create such splendid lives. Those same imperfections that can cause such a rift.
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| Age: 19 |
| Shippensburg,
Pennsylvania |
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