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Hello, I am a 53 year old BBW, Poly, Pagan, Domme in search of a submissive male to train to my hand for an eventual collar.
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I do not chat on the platform here, EVER.
If you want to chat with me, you should have AIM.
Not Skype, not YIM, not Kik
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YOU MUST SEND OR HAVE A FACE PIC!
After all, you know what I look like, so why not return the favor. Don't be shy ;) If you have a picture where I can see your face in your profile, that will be just fine. If your first email to me *ONLY* consists of: "Hi/ How are you?/ Wassup? or some other inanity, or if it contains text-speak, do not expect the courtesy of a reply.
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I have 2 lovely cats and no children. I have red hair and blue-green eyes.
Submissives are not interchangeable cogs to me. I put my heart into my submissives and care deeply about them. I'm not the "Bitch Goddess" of lore, though I can play that part for a bit, but its not really me. I'm not looking for a one off, or just to give someone an entry into the local D/s scene although I can do that too if you're honest about your aims.
I just want some honesty, loyalty, and devotion and I can assure you, you'll get it back in spades. I want a relationship with my submissive. I want to be involved in his world, and his life, not just a compartment kept off to the side.
In the best of all worlds I would only have one submissive who fulfilled all my needs, but since that doesn't seem to want to manifest for the moment, I may have other people I see. In the interests of full disclosure, I have one boy under a collar and beautiful girl who serves me as a lady in waiting when she can. Both are platonic, service submissives.
I enjoy dashing Renaissance Faire goers, brooding Goths, Fallen Angels, Bikers with the heart of a Poet, Poets with the heart of a Biker, or a beautiful sensual pretty people. That being said, looks aren't everything, and a willingness to serve and a good heart are more important than a pretty face or washboard abs. SAMs need not apply.
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Any one I choose must have ample time to devote to me and to his training. At first it will be a *BARE MINIMUM* OF **EVERY** SATURDAY NIGHT. I realize that we all have jobs and lives, but I expect to be one of your top priorities. I'm not going to make someone a priority in my life who only makes me an option in theirs.
*******************************************************************************I'm really tired of boys who go poof after 3 weeks or 6 months. If you're not intending to stick around for a good long while, please don't waste my time or yours. I'm not a stickler for rules or protocol until or unless you belong to me.
However, if you wish to use an honorific with me, it would be My Lady. Not Mistress, Ma'am, Goddess, Princess, or anything else. If you do send me a letter with any other honorific than that, I will know you did not read my profile, or do not care about my wishes, neither of which would bode well for any sort of relationship between us.
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I'm often asked what I look for in a Submissive, so here's a partial list in no particular order:
Loyalty
Honesty
Respect
Communication
Submissiveness
Honor
Discipline
Passion
Greatness
Also, I will not be your dirty little secret, nor will I be a stop-gap measure for you whilst you search for your "One". I'm poly and I don't mind if you wish to see others, but honesty is a must. I abhor sneakiness, dishonesty, and lies.
**Communication in all its various forms is of the utmost importance in any of my relationships.**
Intelligence is required and thoughtfulness cherished. Please be at least 25. I'm 53 here and anything younger than that and I start to feel like I'm robbing the cradle. Please know what you want vis a vis a BDSM relationship. If you're 420 friendly, I dont care what you do on your own time, but the day you see me, you will not use, nor will you smoke cigarettes. I dont like the smell, and kissing a smoker is like licking an ashtray. Not my kink.
I'm really not into Adult Babies, Diaper Lovers, Littles or Cross Dressers; Androgyny is a plus though, and I adore long hair. I am fascinated by very butch women and I find FTMs a huge turn on only when or if we click. I do list myself as pansexual, and body "bits" don't matter to me, but I find myself drawn to masculine energy at this time.
I don't like to do a lot of back and forth on the computer, so please be prepared to meet in public and yes, due to numerous no-shows you will be coming to me. I do not ask for monetary tribute, but I DO require a single white rose in a bud vase at a first meeting as a sign of respect.
Please no mail from other countries, if you're going to relocate, do it first and then we can talk. I'm not looking for 24/7 and I play mostly in public and semi-public forums (BDSM clubs, Playspaces, etc.) so if you need to hide your predilections, please look elsewhere. If you wish to relocate, dont do so for me. But if youre relocating, please feel free to contact me when youre settled in and local to me.
Please, no married men unless your wife knows what you are up to, and make no mistake, I will ask to speak with her.
If all you're looking for is kinky sex, move on.
Not to say that I do not sleep with my pets, but that is a privilege to be earned over much time. Finally, if you have ANY problems serving a BBW don't waste my time or yours, just click that little "X" in the corner of the screen and don't look back.
A positive attitude is a MUST.
I also do pro sessions, but this profile is to search for a lifestyle partner/consort.
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I swear....I weep for the future of this country sometimes. The intelligence, or lack thereof, in the vast majority of the submissive males in their 20's who contact me is stunning.
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Dear Submissive Men,
In an effort to educate you and help you find your Domme, let me drop some knowledge in your lap.
Most of us Dommes spend a long time crafting our profiles in order to let potential submissives/pets/slaves know what we want/need/expect.
When men contact us, we assume they have read our profiles in their entirety, and that the conditions/wants/needs/parameters set within them have been met. When we find out that they have not been read or followed;
it wastes our time and yours.
It angers and frustrates us.
It shows us that you are lazy.
It shows us that you do not follow directions well.
It shows us you do not care about our wants and needs.
None of which bodes well for a prospective submissive. So, when you DO become available, you have been marked as an annoying, time waster not to be taken seriously. Dommes DO network. EXTENSIVELY. We share frustrations, and we share names, profiles, pictures etc. So not only will you have tarnished your reputation with one Domme, you have tarnished it with MANY Dommes. So please, read, and think before you send a request to a Dominant Woman. Trust me, you do NOT want to get tarred with that brush. Reputations in The Scene are very hard to change if they are poor.
Having said all that I wish you only the best going forward. Should you wish to contact me if/when you fit ALL the parameters in my profile, please feel free.
I would love to hear from you.
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| Age: 42 |
| Salt Lake City,
Utah |
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