*2014 update*

SO fucking sick of the fakes here.  literally 98% of anyone i ever talk to here is not who they say they are.  so here's the deal.  if you want to talk to me at all in any capacity, i need proof that you are who you say you are.  a short CM audio with *my* name in it or a proof picture holding a piece of paper with *my* name on it.  i hate to make demands like this but literally nobody here is real anymore so this is how it has to be.  you will, of course, receive the same in return, i just don't put personal pics out there for the entire internet.  i'm sorry i'm coming off like a bitch in my first paragraph but if you knew the amount of time i've wasted on fucking fake asswipes here you might understand.

**you will be blocked, deleted, and ignored if you do not comply with this**

so... not sure what to put here really.

i checked "lesbian" though technically i'm bi... but i really am not here for men, sorry guys

i guess i need training? i'm pretty new to all of this but really sincere and i know this is who i am and what i need. 

please don't message me calling me a slut or bitch... i'm not your sub (yet) that can come in due time.  i'm a strong woman and i don't take kindly to shallow, fake bullshit online.  approach me like a beautiful, intelligent, and worthwhile person and you won't be disappointed. 

i guess ask me anything you want to know? not writing an autobiography here...

i probably will be way too nervous and embarrassed to send the first message... if i look at your page i'm probably interested and don't know what to say to capture my intention so maybe be nice and initiate contact pretty please? ;-)

*the pic is not of me, just really liked the gesture*

**since it's come up, i'm happy to send a real one to show you i am who i say i am, but not off the bat.  i need to know and trust you first, i'm sorry to put my foot down on that.  i've had some shitty and terrifying experiences in the past i don't really want to get into with pictures, both compromising and tame, and some are probably still floating around out there.  i guess that would be my biggest hard limit.  if you can't put the time in to talk and build trust first, i'm sorry but i'm probably not the right one for you.  thanks for understanding...**