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Been taking and entertaining the idea of having this 45 year old banned Builtboy2 actual relocate and be my slave. He talks about how it's all he wants, how he thinks he could please me and such. However I can't get him to remember what we have planned our when he's assigned to do something. There have been several incidents where I gave him a second chance. At the end of the summer in 2016 he was suppose to call me on my day off never heard from him and he never replied to my messages. He says he didn't notice a notification and he was sorry that he disappointed me, this was in February 2017 I believe.
He was and did work his way back into my good graces. He called a few times but never on any scheduled times I've specifically said to call our message me. I even was aware of the time difference and told him at what time in HIS time zone to call. He of course said as you wish. However didn't happen. On one occasion he told me he did call but it went to voicemail and we did have trouble connecting. I eventually fixed it but that was on a different occasion that we scheduled a phone call. Now after that mishap we had one conversation where I told him I wanted to officially own him and work to relocation. This was met with the call being dropped and unable to call back. I messaged him but for about a week he didn't read or reply to my messages. It wasn't until a week went by that he got back in touch and it was only a few minutes ago I realized I sent him my a message that was intended to be my private note. He told me he did try to call back but went to voicemail and that he was sorry.
I attempted to fix that do it doesn't happen again. I told him that unless I have dismissed him or he has requested to part on the phone he must get back in touch with me on the phone or on here. He said yes sir as you wish sir. I told him I was tired and I wanted him to call me on Sunday March 19th at 3pm his time, which was 12pm my time. It got to be 6:30pm my time when I text him that he was suppose to call me 6 1/2 hours ago. He did get back to me and said he tried to call but went straight to voicemail. I then told him you're suppose to message me on here if that happens. He said I'm sorry he forgot that rule. I later sent him a message saying I want you to call me back at 5pm your time tomorrow, being Monday March 20th. He was on here early in the morning on March 20th but didn't read my message. He's also been on here on the 21st and 24th that I know of but again hasn't read my messages. He was suppose to find out his measurements on clothing but I doubt he did that.
Some of you reading this might seem like it's not a big deal but for me my boy will have to follow a schedule that starts when he wakes up and until he goes to bed. This was something that this boy was very well aware of. If he can't follow a st scheduled time frame, or any boy for that matter, how am I suppose to believe you will do the same once you're here? Also if you can't remember a date and time how am I suppose to believe you'd remember when you're suppose to relocate? If you can't follow one small order in a week time how am I suppose to believe you would be capable of following orders while under my ownership? If I don't think you can follow orders why would I invest my money in relocating you? If I don't see you as being able to relocate in the not too distant future, and especially if your not showing you're working towards relocation after we established ownership, why should I bother giving you my time?
Once I start talking with you and ownership is established relocation or a visit is expected within 6-9 months. I'm not going to sit here and wait 2-4 years do you can finish your college. Shouldn't be on here with a profile dating willing to relocate and all that if your just about to go away for college our at college and can't relocate for 2-4 years. This is not acceptable. This boy was aware of a lot of things that I do and don't allow but chose not to follow order, not to keep his commitments, and failure to follow the rules. I honestly believe I have even been played by him and that he I'd just trying to get off and has several other Doms and Masters that are taking with him. So if any of you happen to run across him our have been talking to just know he's stated to me for about a month and half that there are not any Sirs he was pursuing other then me and even agreed to working to relocate here in Arizona but never got further then that.
But I'm sure he might be leading you on to. Don't fall for it because he's not clearly interested. Like I said he's been on here 3 times since the March 20th and it's more March 25th and I didn't get on here on the 22nd or 23rd do he could have been on here then to. But if he was in fact genuinely interested in me, was wanting to be owned and working toward relocation down here in Arizona. Then wouldn't you think he'd have messaged me by now our at least read the message when he sees I've sent him a message. If I'm his Sir why is he getting on here but not reading or replying to my messages? I seriously doubt he's interested just looking to get off do I'd say cut your losses.
I also have voice recording and message based evidence to back my claims in you guys think I'm just trying to turn you way and keep him to myself. If you inbox and exchange numbers I can send you text and recordings of my phone calls where I told him I'd like to relocate him down here and as soon as possible and that we needed to talk about that on March 19th 2017 at 3pm. And him saying he'd really like that. |
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Recently talked to a guy marky96 said he read my profile and we had matching interests. I didn't see him in the view me so I messaged him asking what he was looking for, as his profile didn't say anything. He said looking for someone dominate, controlling and put him in chastity. All genetic stuff. I confirmed what I was looking for and sent him 2 mashes, which he had read, in 49 minutes of each other. He's still logged in but now he can't seem to message. He went from messaging every 5 minutes after a message to nearly 2 hours of not replying. I just think this boy is telling do people look out. |
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Definitely got played by newslave4youSir. We started talking, he told me he was for real and would care to visit before making a decision to relocate, didn't even get that. We was chatting regularly and he even got my number. I got sidelined in the beginning for trips to NYC with friends and such. However as of 2:35 am October 15th I received my last text which says "Good morning my Master." To which I replied at 6:58am on October 15th with "Wilfred my boy good to hear from you" his real name is Larry I just renamed him Wilfred. That was the last time. It is nearly the 21st and he hasn't checked in for days like he's suppose to, he has been on collarspace, despite several attempts to contact him he hasn't contacted me and even deleted my messages I sent him yesterday on collarspace, said deleted unread. He built me up making me think at least on the visit aspect he was for real and that he was serious. I told him I was getting him a temporary uniform, and even bought pieces of his uniform for him. But now like all the other boys he let me spend my money and never told me he was having second thoughts. And the fact he won't face me either just leaves me to wonder. |
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Got played by yet another boy, talked about relocating fairly soon, performed tasks I set forward I think, sent me a let to his chastity but probably had the other one, then spent $250 on stuff for him and then he up and disappears on me. He quits talking, texting and didn't even reply on here. My profile and our conversations before going forward mentioned everything I was had and was prepping him to do. He used me to get things then left when he used me up. Now talking about being wanting to find a master and relocate to his desires but don't by into it. He is lying and will take advantage of you if you let him. |
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Well once again here we are. Let's see have 3 subs I have contact information to. Not one of them text me. Had issues with internet on my phone for a little over a week and no that sub won't contact me anymore. Then had a boy David Foley message me yet again to my Facebook and then go mia because I couldn't message him right away. After explaining I had a messed up phone and was going into work. Needless to say I'm about done on this site. |
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Had another sub for like 24 hours. But the fact my disabled mom is in my care has sweet me back again. |
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Here we go again. Just as things look to be going well with a slave and looks to show promise and agreed to submit. He hasn't dome the 2 things asked of him. 1) Update his profile to reflect me as his Master. 2) Give me his name so I can get a nametag, and some personalized items hell need. He said he'd update and send that sometime last night but hasn't yet. However he was online at 12:05am this morning and didn't update his profile, send me his information, or read my messages. He's looking to relocate in January so I need him to show signs of committing today so I can start prepping for the boys arrival. But he had yet to do that. Anyone feel maybe he has backed out? |
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Got to love subs who message you with the intention just to try and fuck you over. Thinking the person was bi polar. Enough of those boys. Anyway think I've found my boy just waiting to see if he's legit. So far he has done well but we'll see if he wants to take it to the next level. |
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It looks like my time and efforts might have been wasted again. Seems to have lost 2 more promising boys today. One I've been talking to for weeks and the other started talking to just tonight, by the name of tallsubfl, and traded some back conversation and thought was hitting off. Had a good vibe and felt good potential until he stopped replying to me. Read a message and still haven't heard from him for over 30 minutes now. If not interested try to show some manners and bow out gracefully. It's funny how some of the slave have been trained and all but no longer have Masters. Then they're rude as hell.
However it's not that I'm surprised with the subs on here most tend to lead you on and quit talking to you the second it gets real and goes beyond just talking. It looks like I didn't need a 2 bedroom place after all. |
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It looks like my time and efforts might have been wasted again. Seems to have lost 2 more promising boys today. Not that I'm surprised with the subs on here most tend to lead you on and quit talking to you the second it gets real and goes beyond just talking. It looks like I didn't need a 2 bedroom place after all. |
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Got to love slaves/ subs that tell you that want to be owned. But then say they can't relocate because they have a job they won't leave. That or the are planning to go to college first, which they haven't even started yet. Also they are going school and then want to get a job in the field before relocating. It's like why are you wasting my time and wanting to find out what if do to you. One of the most recent one I was taking to had the word Serious in his username. It's like give me a break. How can one be "SERIOUS" about searching for a Dom/Master if he won't relocate? They want to be in a serious Dom that is serious about owning a boy. Just upgraded to a 2 bedroom place to house a potential slave and now it feels all efforts are again down the toilet with this shit that they keep pulling. |
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So how hard is it to follow a rule when your only rule I'd to check in when you wake up and asked to be dismissed in the evenings? That's it! The only rule I have. He did it fir like 3 days. Then said he list his charger and had to get a new, one which is why I hadn't heard from him in 3 days. Then here it it's like a week hater and I've only heard from him 3 times. Is it seriously that hard to follow? If I can't trust him to follow a simple rule. How can I trust him in my house and if he can hold up his side of the Master/Slave relationship. |
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Well started talking with a slave that had promised worked with him before and yet he just went MIA about a day and a half ago. Thought I'd test him very easily on commitment but guess that's what I get. |
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Well been a stressful couple of weeks had a few good subs/slave talked be big, seemed to actually know their role by text book definition, started off seemed it could work but stopped keeping in touch and finally after trying to get a hold of them several times said we we're compatible even though that not what they we're about or saying before that. So then I'm like. Had another sub, mentioned him in the journal yesterday, didn't show up, used my vacation time, spent a few hundred dollars of my own money on clothing, toys, and stuff for him. I've dealt with subs arguing telling me I'm wrong I don't know the lifestyle. No I'm just aware of the textbook definition of what a submissive and slave, which there is a difference, I've had a slave and a casual submissive boy toy in Indiana before, and known actual couples in the lifestyle. Then I have one that says he wants to come down for training but stopped messaging me. Got in touch with an old sub who said we we're compatible, but our message history and his profile all differ, when the original reason was he had to finish up school in Australia. And know I have one that just isn't talking a friend who is more demanding of me then I am of him just stop talking after I refuse to send a shower pic I got out of the shower less then 30 minutes later. He seemed nice enough but I find him more bossy then most Doms I know.
Just had to quickly jot down shit that was bugging me just to get shit off my chest. I'll post more of what they said and who they are later. Maybe I'm wrong if so people can let me know if it was what I did or what they did. |
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Well suppose to have meet and started training Reds2442 today but he's already nearly 30 minutes late. He got off at 2:30 and was suppose to be here at 3 and it's practically 3:30 now. I fucking hate the subs from these sites. They act all interested lead you on, let you spend your money, use your vacation time you could have used to visit your family or go see your God Daughters graduation. Then they don't show up, don't text or call you, suddenly your no longer compatible all though the message the day before you were and/or then suddenly the Sub becomes a hypocrite because when you first met them they want to be what the Sir wants and a good slave changes themselves for that and suddenmy they can't do that. |
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I spent some time with this submissive, Basementdweller, got a good vibe and was officially set to start the pre-training to being my slave. It went good in our messages the past few weeks, went good on text, thing were rocky with the camera but the Skype went good 2 days ago, and yesterday, being 4/4/2014, he did his first orders well and today no answer on text. I was like ok no problem.
I get on here to send him videos, the next step in his training and to ask him for his address to send some items. I see that he has viewed me today being 5/5/2014 at around 1pm. Well I go to send the message to him and I get a message that the user has blocked me and can't send the message.
I sent messages to a few other subs and they sent so it's not the site. Why would you waste someone's time, sure got a caming out of it, and then for another day only to ignore and/or block someone? Granted this isn't the first guy it happened with but it never happened to someone who started showing promise. |
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What's the point of trading text if you only plan to communicate on here anyway or that you're not going to reply in 24 hours? That's why you trade numbers to move forward in ownership, keep closer tabs on your slave, to test them and to build trust. I've exchanged a few and then they don't talk for several days to weeks, the second you go to test them the stop replying, or tell you that they do use their phone a lot. Are you kidding me with this? You claim to be dedicated and want to be trained and owned and yet you can't master the task of using a phone? What the hell am I going to do with you if you can't do that. Dumb people can pick up and use the phone. Again some of you might say I have to account for their job. True but they should be able to reply once every 24 hours. I've never had to work 24 hours a day several days straight. |
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So I got a complaints before about making boys jump through hoops and fulfill orders or tasks for me before I commit to owning them. We I just talked to a sub for about an hour that I made jump through hoops and I made him crack because he actually admitted he was trying to scam me and then proceeded to ask for the money. Presumably to show he was honest or something. Unfortunately lots of slave are flacks and will try and take your money, use you to get off for a night, and/or compiling large levels of excuses for stuff before up and leaving/disappearing all together.
That is why you have to work hard to prove your devotion to this lifestyle. If your unwilling your obviously not really looking and cut out to be a slave. |
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It really ticks me off when a submissive request time to chat and when you set up a chat time they don't show or do something else. It's like why bother asking to chat if your only going to be there for like 3 messages or 30 minutes. Or when you start to giving them orders because they want to prove themselves and then go MIA at the first order. It seems like a lot more flakes have came on this site. At least most the slaves the first time around would talk. |
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I'm a Dom who has been looking for a submissive boy to be my slave and/or a submissive boyfriend. I require a total package of complete control. It would also require them to relocate to me. In order to feel that I can trust them for a visit I need to test them on things that I can see such as small things such as clothing garments, shaving, humiliation, ect.
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