Looking for a local Dom or Domme and spanker - these could be two different people! (Based in East London). Females particularly welcome - I may play with guys but dont touch penises.

In the very long run, Im (also) actively on the lookout for a (male) Dom who can also be my long term partner. So I welcome anyone (under 55 please!!) to drop me a message if youre someone who wouldnt mind the possibility of developing from play to relationship. Of course, compatibility outside the bedroom matters as well, and is key to moving beyond play. Im very intelligent and find most Doms unconvincing or unable to fully persuade me of their dominance beyond a granted bedroom submission. In the meantime, for play, I may be up for casual play if our kinks are of a high match.

Im 33, female, oriental, small and a little curvy. Very experienced but out of touch recently. Humiliation, spanking and forced orgasms - a big thing for me. Strict rules and protocol and swift punishment in case of any hesitation or disobedience. I find forced rimming and anal (play, sex) especially good for putting me in my place.

**Probably looking for someone young, ie. under 55 or so please! (thats for play, not spanking)