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sweetexasub

Please read the profile before contacting me. Thank you.

Natural submissive masochist looking for her Dominant Sadist. I enjoy a variety of activities and i am open to exploring many things with some basic hard limits respected.


i have been active in the BDSM community for a long time now and in that time i have learned quite a bit, though i believe we always have more to learn. i am looking for someone honest and open for an adult relationship. i wish to remain free of any drama or childishness so please leave the games at the door. i am looking for real time interaction so if it is your intention to remain online only i am not your girl.

i am looking for an eventual TPE as trust evolves.

i am not open to married men or long distance relationships. i have just found they go absolutely no where.

Please be older than 45, I am not attracted to younger men, sorry. Please be younger than 60.


Looking for someone who loves life and is open to new experiences. If you are an old dog, set in his ways, we probably wont get along.

Thanks for reading
9/9/2016 4:08:53 AM
You guys really need to learn to stop taking everything so seriously. I dont think there is a rule that says Doms cant smile.
9/5/2016 7:58:31 AM
Ok guys, its been a while since i posted anything so here goes. First messages which are of a sexual nature are just dumb. Establish communication, ask how her day is going, what makes her happy or who she is. "Are a sub or slave" is not an appropriate question. "How horny are you" and "how often do you masturbate" are also questions i have received which received no reply. As for the are you a sub or slave question the real question is"are you man enough to be a master?" I am just a woman to you, not sub or slave. When i sense you are man enough i will be sub. Now, if we connect and become a serious couple, i know i will submit more until i am his slave. That does not make me your slave nor even sub. Show me you are a man worth submitting to and then you will learn the depths which my submission will go. If you dont understand that, you dont understand women at all.
10/5/2015 2:33:41 PM
ok, so once again here I go.  I was gone for a few weeks bc I started a conversation with a "Dom" who I knew I shouldnt have in the first place but did so against my better judgement.  So it starts, he emails me from georgia or alabama, couldnt quite ever get an honest answer on that one.  I responded, sorry I dont do long distance, best of luck with your search.  He emails back that, while he is out of town, he has interviewed with a couple of companies here in Houston and will be moving very soon.  I say ok, maybe we can talk and get to know each other.  SO of course it is mindless conversation, no meaningful get to know the real you type talk, and that is where it stayed.  Whenever I asked him about moving to Texas it was always still working on it, didnt hear from the company yet and that sort of thing.  Of course he asked for naked pictures and to Skype, neither of which he received. So now it goes back to this, unless you live in Houston and are able to meet within a few weeks of talking I dont want to talk to you, I dont care if your grandma lives in Houston and you come here every summer.  I dont care if you will be coming through on a business trip or will be moving here soon.  It doesnt matter and I do not care.  Be local if you want to chat, final answer. What a waste of a month.
12/13/2014 12:43:40 PM
I am finding great amusement in all the letters I receive from Doms who are upset by my journal entries. 
6/28/2014 8:52:48 AM
I don't understand why all the slaves are dying? I am not trying to be heartless for those of You Doms who have lost a slave, but why does it seem like about every other Dom I speak with when I ask about his previous sub, He tells me she died. it just seems very coincidental that half of the Doms on cm have buried young women who were the loves of their lives. Now im not saying that there aren't Doms on here who have lost a loved one, and I am definitely not claiming to be a scientist but based on the data I have had reported by Doms to me, either someone is lying or there may be a link between slavery and death. seriously though if that many young slaves died last year, someone really should be conducting a medical study or something...beginning to concern me.
6/16/2014 5:55:22 PM
time for a slave rant...ok, so I am officially done with the fake play. while I understand it makes the man feel satisfied you are just messing with a girls mind and heart. actual stories...I have had men tell me to wear cuffs for them all the time, but then they don't even reply to yahoo messages. Some ask for webcam sex and others for some other sort of control, ie bathroom or clothing restrictions. even when I told them this is taking me to another place and not just a joke they say they understand but in the end it doesn't matter. They are like "okay" and just disappear. This is not a game, it is my true nature and desire to serve and when men take advantage of that, it just becomes enough. so for any future Dom who may try and contact me... NEW RULES!!!! I will not engage in any sort of play or relinquishing of control in anyway until we have met. You will not get a naked picture or any other sort of image. You are more than welcome to email and ask how my day was and what my favorite_______ is? I will be happy to engage in civilized conversation where we discuss everyday matters, ideas, and philosophies. But, never again will I relinquish control to a Dom until He has earned it. once He earns it however, everything would be His. rant is officially over
6/4/2014 9:46:30 PM
I love it when Doms are experts in every category on their profile...laughs. maybe you should become an expert on the definition of expert? also those who claim to be professional chefs. how many chefs are on cs? self check...if you don't work in a restaurant and earn a living from cooking for others you probably aren't a professional chef and just a good home cook.
6/2/2014 8:05:23 PM
I have come to the realization that I am not leaving Texas. it is simply the best state in the Union and as long as I am already here I don't see any reason to go. it is constantly attracting new companies which bring jobs to the area, no state income tax, low sales tax, low cost of living, great weather, the Cowboys, Astros and Spurs and Rockets, in fact if you live out of Texas and have no intention of relocating, please don't contact me because I will not be leaving Texas.
4/24/2014 1:08:42 PM

I didn't write this but it is very true...

 

A bad Dominant demands obedience, a good Dominant requires obedience and a great Dominant inspires obedience.

2/12/2014 3:06:53 PM

i am currently in school and intend to continue until I complete my Doctorate. Hopefully this will be within the next few years.  This is something that is very important to me and have worked very hard to achieve.  if this is not something You can support and expect Your slave to be locked in a closet all day, please don't contact me.  Looking for a Dom who knows that the success of His slave reflects highly upon Him as well and that she can still be His dirty slut at home. 

Butterflydream
 
 Age: 30
  Florida