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A biiiig cuddlie kitty, that's me. =) As independent as i need to be and sometimes then some. I don't need to be micro managed. In fact, that'd drive me Nuts! Fiercely loyal to those important to me. I'm fairly introverted and a semi loner type... by necessity as much as choice. Generally respectful, polite, often quiet, thoughtful, introspective, considerate, and more. I also have a sometimes whimsical and/or warped sense of humor. Irony often amuses me a great deal. I am a complex and often deep person and thus am far Far more then anything you could read about here. Honesty, integrity, and compassion are extremely important to me. Both in myself, and in anyone I'd be with. I'm usually a rather low-key kind of guy. After all, stress is very much not my friend. I rather try to avoid it when i can. Life goes much smoother. Yes, it does say I'm willing to relocate. I don't really have "roots" as it were, and I don't care much where I am. I care very much who or what is at that place for me. Oh, and I'm not here to use this as a "hook up" site. If that is your aim, move on. Relationships > sex. Savvy? I don't even do sex in any case, yes you heard right. I don't. And not for lack of drive or ability.

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1/11/2018 1:58:24 PM
you know, im not even sure if this site serves a useful purpose any more. i still come by from time to time, but not often generally. that may change, or it may not... i dont really know.  time will tell.

9/2/2017 7:42:28 PM
i wonder if anxiety can kill a person. i might find out. at my age, the kind of continuous heart pounding isnt likly to be a good thing at all. ive very mixed feelings about possibly dieing due to a heart attack. hope it wont hurt much, if so.  not like ive ever had heart issues before, but i really think this kind of thing could create one. then again, im not a doctor so what do i know?  sure is acutely uncomfortable tho, at best this feeling right underneeth the sterum.  well, nothing i can do about any of it no matter what. guess time will tell.

8/18/2015 11:19:18 AM
Not "420 friendly".  seriously, i dont care how mild and harmless anyone thinks marijuana is.... the plain fact is that it IS mild altering. and ANYONE using a mind altering substance for ... of all things... entertainment! is, in my informed opinion... a fool. and a very big fool at that.

i dont want anything to do with people that do that.  not ever. if i even find Out you use, you ... no matter who you are.. will Instantly loose all of whatever respect you had.

4/7/2015 6:08:33 AM
what's in a name? kinda everything really. name, or in this case Title-label, same difference. i find it interesting how the definitions within the lifestyle communities differ on these (actually on a lot of things, but im focusing on This one issue right now).  these differences can mean so much, or in some cases so Little that i dont use my definitions for somebody else's self label until im sure of what it means to them. ive chatted with people from across the globe, and across the US and i tell ya folks, these definitions can change from community to community (usually subtly if over shorter distances but this i not always the case at all), much less state to state.

my own former owner labeled me a slave. and i rejected that title, as i always will. because of how many define it, but mostly because of its origin. if you dont know what that is, you might find it interesting to look up. i am cognizant of this myself painfully well. when you dont have much heritage to speak of (that you know of anyway) and THAT is a part of it, it ... tends to make one less then pleasantly objective on the matter.

discussing this recently with a Lady Dom i vastly enjoyed talking to she came up with an alternative. "property"
i have to admit, that has a ring to it that gives me a silly grin. i like it. a lot as it happens. could even use That (if used with care and aforethought of context) within vanillia settings without disturbing the natives. which is a separate yet highly amusing though in and of itself.

afore unmentioned Domme's (for lack of a better term) are hardly alone in wanting me to change my self label. but then again, ive had some call me not a sub (although usually if pissed at being caught at crossing a line they shouldnt have, and stopped) so... you know, whatever.  i label myself sub, and for several complex reasons i will always reject the label of slave but i could sure see myself getting very used to being called "property". heh.

4/2/2015 2:42:51 PM
looking for friends mostly. im not here as a pickup artist, by no means. its a networking thing, rather.  a wise person once said that a strong relatoinship starts with friendship. i believe that as anyone with sense knows that a strong foundation is what keeps well, pretty much near anything there. be it something as concrete as a literal building, or as abstract as a relationship.  the concept is just as sound with both.

no im not seeking (bdsm or otherwise) "playmate".. as enjoyable as the idea may be, its far from practical. or even possible at current. and im certianly not seeking more then that as the idea is sadly laughable.

no, im not being self defeatest or wollowing in poor self esteem, and while i might be being somewhat self sabotaging (its a talent. one im not really proud of) im mostly being practicle.  trust me, i can raise enough red flags for nearly anyone to throw their own personal parade.  and i dont even have to Try to do it.

soo.. friends?  yeah, please.  more?  uhh.. are you cracked?

1/24/2014 1:55:06 PM
i swear i, im half tempted to look over myself looking for the warning label. should really have one. its not on my sleve cause that's usually where my heart is.  "Caution, Damaged Goods. Handle with care"  but i know i wouldnt be able to find such if i looked. that feels inexplicably wrong somehow.

6/22/2013 1:44:26 AM

it gets wearily depressing how often i meet or even just chat with someone a while, and they just... stop. disappear.

were they politely feigning interest, or lost whatever minor interest that started things, brief as they were... i dont suppose it matters in the end. yeah, probably not.

nevermind, the theater life of life goes ever onward. 

exit, stage left- snaggelpuss


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samanthacoby
 
 Age: 31
  Virginia