I realized something this morning as I was talking with someone. For a TPE to work there has to be a tremendous amount of trust given to the Master. Words of wisdom, no doubt about it.
But when talking to someone and trying to get to know them, if they give me any reason to doubt them, to feel insecure, catch a lie no matter how insignificant or (most important) distrust them in any way, how can one hand over their body and mind. A lie, especially a little one, leads to others and then its hard to tell which is truth and which is not.
I, for one, tend to run. I run scared. Sometimes I guess I run for the wrong reason, but for whatever reason I have, mostly its one of distrust, insecurity or insincerity.
Please,
if you want trust - tell the truth
if you want her body - offer security
if you want ownership - be sincere

just my thoughts

He asked for my trust. I trusted.  He asked me for a picture.  I sent it.  He asked me to reveal my thoughts. I did.  My desires, I did  My hopes and my dreams.  I did.  My fantasies, my nightmares and my inner most thoughts.  I did.  He wanted my devotion.  I gave it freely.  He wanted a good girl.  I was.  He wanted it all and I willingly gave it all to him.  

He lied. 

For several months, he lied.  He asked for my mind, my body and my sole and he was unable to accept any of it.

Back again.  It is with great sadness this time that I write.  I had received a note from a man who turned out to be someone I looked forward to hearing from.  Someone who shared the same wants and needs, who wanted the same level of dominance as I do.  After speaking for several weeks he decided to tell me more about himself with an apology for not saying anything sooner.  No it was not only an apology it was a goodbye.  Was he real in the first place?  I do hope so, but in the end just another tease.

Not a quitter by any means, I keep hoping to find Him or He will find me.

We say honesty and communication are the keys.  This is not only true but essential.  Just because one answers all the questions truthfully does not mean one is being truthful.  If the right question is not asked the true answer will not be spoken.  Its called lying by omission.  sigh.  I am an optimist and I will keep searching.

I can't believe the 'gentlemen' that send an email with one word or a 2/3 word phase.  If you want a door mat I suppose that might be OK.  If you want a woman of intelligence, that can communicate with you and learn to trust you, I would think you would start earning her trust with a conversation that piques her interest.  First comes trust and knowledge then comes submission.  I also appreciate a well written letter with attention to spelling and punctuation.

I don't give out pictures so quickly so please don't ask.

Its interesting when one starts to talk with another and there is something said that the other doesn't care for, he must make up scenarios that are obviously unsafe.  Would they rather scare me off than just be honest and say "don't think this will work".  When you want honesty you must give honesty as well

Why is it so hard to start a conversation with someone?  Is it unreasonable to think  spelling is important?  Is punctuation really not necessary to make sense of one's words?   A one word note is not going to pique someone's interest.  A four line letter with not one comma, period or capital letter is not going to impress.  A sentence that has obviously not been reread for spelling isn't going to make it either.  How hard is spell check?

I'm not a genius and don't pretend to be, but I do know how to read and write.

When a relationship ends, one has to learn to be whole again.  To live on their own and do for themselves.  When a M/s relationship ends the world seems to end with it.  Even the very strongest in life has learned to depend on another and that trusted friend is not there.  sigh...  baby steps.  The sun will rise and set and life goes on.