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ShyTeacher

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I am naturally submissive and seeking one natural Dom who seeks one sub to play with, use, enjoy, and train in real time, in a LTR. I have been exploring, building experiences, and learning about D/s and bdsm as I search for that one special Dom who will lead me further in my journey as I follow him on his path.
I need a REAL HANDS ON relationship. Please contact me if you're seeking one sub to train to please you in real time. Please do not contact me if you are married or in a LTR or seeking "online training". I have been receiving many messages from submissive men. I am not a switch. I have also been receiving many messages from females. I am straight. Please do not contact me. Thank you. Update 3-22-14:
After some reflection, I realize that I must add some details to what I am looking for here. I seek a complete relationship. A relationship that will address my submissive desires and also nurture my vanilla needs. I am honest and loyal and have a lot to offer the Dominant I serve. However, I keep my submissive and vanilla worlds separate. I do not participate in D/s in public. If you seek a sub who will go to dinner without panties or a bra, then I am not the one you seek. I am a lady in public and your submissive only in private. I am very shy. I need a perceptive Dom who pays attention and can get inside my head so he can gain emotional and mental control.... through which physical control may be earned. I DIDN'T THINK IT NECESSARY SINCE MY PROFILE CLEARLY STATES THAT I AM STRAIGHT, BUT, NO, I AM NOT INTERESTED IN HEARING FROM WOMEN.

PLEASE READ MY JOURNAL ENTRIES BEFORE CONTACTING ME. THANKS!

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11/9/2015 6:30:08 PM

When I think about D/s, the very first words that come to mind are MUTUAL TRUST and MUTUAL RESPECT. These need to earned.  People in vanilla relationships need to earn them  from their partners. But, it's even more crucial in the D/s  relationship than in any other.  Once again, TRUST and RESPECT need to be earned.  Neither are a given.  So, why, why, why do all the Doms who contact me and want to meet me expect me to submit to them the first time we meet????  Submission is a gift to be shared AFTER TRUST and RESPECT are earned.  A sub needs to feel safe in order to agree to submit.  We know there are crazy people out there who will hurt or kill you.  Just because you say you're not one of them doesn't mean you're not one of them!  Nobody ever admits to a potential victim that they are going to hurt or kill her. C'mon!!!  Be realistic!!!  If your expectation is submission right away, before TRUST and RESPECT have been established, please, please, please DO NOT CONTACT ME. I didn't think I needed to add this, but apparently I do. I am straight and only interested in hearing from men.


5/7/2014 4:11:27 PM

"Rooms On Fire"  Stevie Nicks

Somewhere out in the back of your mind (Somewhere)
Comes your real life and the life that you know
It seems like it was the creation of some of those same old things
It seemed to be the only thing left out in the light
She had trusted many...
But been unfamiliar with...
Almost everyone but you

Well maybe I'm just thinking that the rooms are all on fire
Everytime that you walk in the room
Well there is magic all around you, if I do say so myself...
I have known this much longer than I've known you

She had trusted many...
And then there would be someone who would enter into her presence
That she could sense for miles...
She dreamed of her wanton luxury
And she laughed and she cried... and she tried to taunt him
And he hated to be separated...
From that picture... No...

Well maybe I'm just thinking that the rooms are all on fire
Everytime that you walk in the room
Ooh, well there is magic all around you, if I do say so myself...
Well I have known this much longer than I've known you

Long nets of white cloud my memory...
Long nets of white cloud my memory...
Ooh... there is magic... all around you...
Everytime you walk in the room...

Well maybe I'm just thinking that the rooms are all on fire
Everytime that you walk in the room
Well there is magic all around you, if I do say so myself...
Well I have known this much longer than I've known you...


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ashleeSS
 
 Age: 32
 Melbourne, Florida