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I am seeking my twisted counterpart to indulge in passionate BDSM desires. I am a 47 years old dominate male that has been into BDSM since 2005. I am not a spring chicken by any means, but there is still a lot to learn and share with others. Nothing is more rewarding than guiding someone through the twist and turns of BDSM.



If you are a male pretending to be a female, please move on. If you are in a foreign country trying to scam for money, please move on. If you need to be released from a dominate to talk with me, then please move on. I have no time to waste with anyone that is being deceptive. (Sad I must make this disclaimer in my profile)



If you are single, lets discuss some real discussion about your desires, hopes, fantasies and explore what youre seeking?



If your married and looking to explore BDSM, please be aware that I dont want to be in the middle of your domestic disputes. So, if youre going to hide this from me, please do an extra great job keeping it from him and me. If I can figure it out so can he. Also, just be upfront and let me know your only looking to learn and play so that I dont get emotionally attached to someone that is not going to be emotionally available. I wont judge you for your decision to explore BDSM, but I am going to ask you why you have not tried swinging, open relationships and other alternative lifestyles. They do exist, and that might be a better place to start exploring your sexuality.



Now about me, because thats what this profile is about and hopefully finding someone to indulge in wild passionate, erotic expression of desires. What did you think this profile was for some other reason? Well, I could tell you that I am looking for my perfect submissive. However, is anyone perfect? Oh, I could tell you I am looking for someone that understands me? Well doesnt that just come along with a relationship when connection begins to take place, and we start saying he gets me or she gets it?



Here is the bottom line I am looking for intellectually stimulating conversation with submissive women. I have determined that my desire for this is strong. I am not looking for a mindless submissive that serves me just because she has submissive desires to submit. What can you expect with me? Very simply I am a strong, compassionate and a realist. I enjoy my sexuality and love to experience the sensuality of all aspects of BDSM. I would describe myself as very open minded as an individual. I am also creative and love to create erotic themes to play out behind closed doors.



Ok, lets talk and rock each others world!
6/22/2017 11:29:00 PM

It's been a week of awareness for me. I been re-evaluating the direction I want to head in this lifestyle. I am looking to meet genuine people seeking a journey of experience. I am not in a rush by any means. However, getting to know people can be rather slow and cumbersome. If your ready to discuss this lifestyle then send a message my way.

5/29/2017 10:23:13 PM
Nothing new going on except wondering why all the can I come worship your feet people keep messaging me....lol 
5/17/2017 11:13:28 PM

I just read a great article about the lack of consent and holding our community accountable to safe words, and negotiation before a play scene. I guess I am naïve thinking others use safe words in their play sessions. I thought negotiation was just part of the prerequisite to engaging in a play session. Things that just baffle me is not being consensual and safe.  

7/17/2016 3:11:47 PM

WOW! I got blocked for making a statement and asking a question from a woman that wanted to be dominated in front of her husband. The statement I made was this below:

To me, you would need a very open minded individual that is capable of separation of psychological attachment to you especially considering the fact that your heart is with your husband. My first thought is the situation would be more of a fantasy gift for you do to the fact that the development of intimacy would be conditional and somewhat limited.

I  am curious to know have you ever actually been dominated in front of your husband?

Now, Collar Space friends if this gets a person upset to the point of being blocked then they have some serious mental issues. Would you not agree? Love to hear all your opinions sometimes. 

2/7/2016 7:11:24 AM
"It's been so long since I made love I can't even remember who gets tied up." Joan Rivers
5/7/2013 11:23:03 PM
Yes, I will send a photo upon your humble request.
5/6/2013 8:39:26 PM
The search continues for the more serious submissive. I like to have actual dialog that has meaning and purpose.
3/10/2013 3:00:59 PM
Let's see lately I been trying to meet like minded individuals. No hurry for me at this point. It has been an exciting time in my life. My professional life is on the rise, lots of exciting things are going on in my adventures. I have meet a lot of new and submissive women that are reaching out for direction and guidance in the lifestyle. I have to admit that it is such a beautiful experience seeing the light come on and watching others expand into the BDSM world....they each remind me of when I was new and discovering my own likes and dislikes...what a rewarding exciting time.
justtosexy
 
 Age: 24
 Birmingham, United Kingdom