update:::

i am pretty much just going to get straight to the point here.

i dont play games or mess around with people as a personal hobby, i am a real person.

i spent some time with a women that pretty much showed me all i need to know, i discovered that i can not hurt and make women cry and just be plain out fucked up to them.

i am on this site cause i want to find another who is either just as kinky as i am or a lil more. i personally can not do all that cage stuff and just degrade women. why? cause i have to much respect for them. i was born and raised a certain way and i plan on being that way for the rest of my life.

so yeah.. im just a kink. where do i fit in? no clue.. would i pay to play? def not. im looking for a certain type of person not looking for a random hookup.

I AM NOT DESPERATE!. LOL  see what i did there? yeah if i wanted to "just get laid" that has never been a issue for me, but im older,smarter,more picky i know what i want and nothing is going to stop me. again i will not pay to play.

i feel if your on this site you shouldn't be trying to sell a service your good at. but... i understand cause if i was really good at making people feel like shit about themselves and basically degrading them i would probably want to get paid for it to cause i would need something to make myself feel better. but.. thats me and my opinion. so no offence to you dom sluts out there that wont stop emailing me. see what i did there? yes sarcasm is my second language.

i do have a ton more pictures, all kinds actually.. will you get to see them? maybe.. im not that easy though, i take things like that very personal and i make sure i am well aware of who im sending pics to.

if you have read thus far then i should tell you a little about myself.i am 31 years of age,i grew up in nyc but i spent 7 years on and off living in colorado, i have a career that i love and wouldn't trade it for the world. i love getting dirty like as far as fixing cars and riding dirt bikes and just getting really muddy, its probably one of my favorite things to do. i love going to concerts.. doesn't everyone though? i am not a fake person, i always keep it 100% with everyone. im generous and respectful to everyone around me. i love going to dive bars but also love fancy lounges. i basically just want to experience everything that "fun" has to offer. im not picky but i dont eat peas. most of my x's say im old fashioned as far as opening doors for ladys and paying for dinner.. but i think thats just me and who i am.i dont see anything special about that cause its just a natural reaction for me.

i would be extremely shocked if someone makes it thus far in reading my profile. so to sum things up, im not a noob anymore,i treat women with respect,cant be caged and i just want to have fun with someone who is like me.. not to much to ask for right? wrong.. its taking forever.. lol so if you just want to have some fun and i dont only mean sexually, like as far as getting drinks seeing a show or just hanging out drop me a line and we shall see where it takes us.