It is so rare that I rant... but I can't sleep and I'm irritated.
One of the things I love about this lifestyle. Freedom to express our selves in what ever form or fashion that takes. For most of us... honesty is paramount.
For that small few [and growing larger every day] in whom transparency is an issue.... GROW THE F UP.
If you are married... state you are married. If you are cheating on your significant other...SAY IT. If you are in this just for a kinky booty call. OK... LAY IT OUT THERE. If you are new to the lifestyle. BY GOD LET THE OTHER PERSON KNOW.
Chances are there are a lot of people that are going to play, serve or hang with you even if you are married or with someone and stepping out for whatever reasons... or don't mind someone new to the lifestyle... or that are good with NSA. That is why we are here... doing what we do... and having a great time.
THE POINT IS BE HONEST.
As an S&M player bottom/sub/slave in the BDSM realm... it can be dangerous for you not to be forth coming. It does not mean that I wont consider playing with you... but it does mean certain things are off the table until I am confident that you have had the right mentoring, training or experience.
As for the booty call... holy cow... be honest... Again... if i am not in a contract... or collared ... or in a closed relationship... NSA may be what I am looking for. Give me that opportunity to either agree or move on. No judgements. I am not going to stalk you... throw a fit and cry and beg.... I have more important endeavors in my life than being that needy, weak spined, clingy ass woman.
Stop with the lying, the smoke screens, the excuses... the wild and crazy stories about how you were in Japan when Godzilla came through... you drove your car off a bridge...your dog ate every phone, cell phone, computer and way of communication in your house after he found and ate your 10 year old neighbors, brothers, sisters aunts, cousins medical marijuana stash hidden in a top secret underground bunker.
Really... i pretty much know when you are full of crap...i just may be kicking back to see how really asinine you really are. Then I will Peace out as i shake my head.
OK... rant done... I am going back to bed.
For the rest of you... have a great week!!
Namaste |