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Hello to everyone and thank you for reading my profile. I am going to keep this profile very simple to help keep the people who are not interested at bay and the ones who are interested ined.

About Me

I have been in the lifestyle since I was 23 yrs old. I have met a lot of wonderful people in that time that have helped me to learn and discover all that this world has to offer. I thank them everyday for their support and guidance during my journey.

I can come across as harsh, but I am a strict dominant and will not let any silly drama upset me. This lifestyle is supposed to be fun for all of us, and I will not tolerate anyone causing problems in my life.

I am a loving, nurturing dominant who enjoys helping a girl grow into herself. My girls are built up to be the best subsslaves that they want and need to be inside strong and secure in all that she is and will be. I am an extremely balanced dominant that enjoys both the warm, respectful, cuddly side with his girls, but also has the strict firm enforcer and sadistic side that comes as easily as breathing does, to me.

I met a girl who changed my opinion of the poly lifestyle. I started to see that I have always wanted to be able to be this way, but my past held me back accepting it fully. It isnt about sex. Sex can be part of it, but it is more about being willing to love fully and completely and knowing those you are with love you completely as well. It is about family. A loving family is what I truly want. I look forward to all the joy and happiness I will have with a bdsm family.

Looking For

I am searching for a bisexual (or at least happy to share her dominant with other girls) submissiveslave girl that is looking for a strong, caring DominantMaster in a loving and supportive poly household. I want to find a girl who wants to be cared for, not just because she is a subslave, or because she is pretty, or because of the play, but because she has something to offer in conversation, and can share her thoughts with me, and listen to mine without either of us feeling judged or disrespected. I may be the Dom, and she may be the sub, but she would be MY sub, and that would mean she is worth something greater than she may realize.

I will not tolerate a doormat in my house as I see no need for one in any way. I enjoy seeing a girl dress up and feel strength in her feminine natures, not just in her submission. My girls should show respect for themselves in caring about their appearances and I will from time to time express my wishes to have them dress up for me, and yes, at times I will make demands for specific, or general types of dress or dress up.

I am a sadist and though that may scare some, I am not looking to just beat a girl for no reason. Just like everything else, it needs to be for both of our pleasures, or at least consented by both of us.

I am not interested in bathroom play, needles, cutting, or anything that leaves permanent marks. My girls are not damaged beyond healing mentally OR physically, ever. I do and will take pleasure in welts and bruises as I enjoy knowing my girls wear my marks and know who they belong to all the time in some or fashion.

Things I am Not Interested In


A doormat. I will never touch a girl that I do not respect or cannot respect her own self. Think of it this way. Imagine a cart with two wheels. One of the wheels is strong, confident, with no damage. The other, is broken and fractured with pieces missing. The journey then becomes unpleasant, bumpy and horrible for everyone. Dont you agree?

Any girl that is married and dishonest with their partner. If this is you, then I cannot trust you and do not wish to waste time trying. This is a world of communication and trust and subsslaves that cheat on their partners means they have not yet understood this as a fundamental building block.
A girl that is not willing to live life to the fullest. Again, this lifestyle is about fun and exploration, so lets have a good time shall we?
A girl that is not bisexual (or at least happy to share her dominant with another girl) or not interested in becoming part of a loving and supportive family. Love is meant to be shared and held in the highest regard in life. Within my home, order and love are shared hand in hand.
A liar. If you are not 100 honest with yourself and me then this relationship will not and cannot work. I can only help you and be the leader and protector that you need IF you trust me to do so.
A girl that is a swinger. I lead a poly household. If you are unsure of the difference between a swinger and a poly family then I urge you to ask me or take the time and look it up.

My family are all STD free, as am I. I will not let anyone or anything in my house that would compromise this. Any new girl will be tested before any sexual use, and be given paperwork on all in my house proving that we are STD free as well.

I look forward to hearing from anyone who wishes to communicate with me, and any submissivesslaves interested in speaking with me.

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3/13/2014 9:42:25 PM

I found this on that OTHER site and thought it was very worth sharing.
 

The Myths of BDSM- (DominantMan78's Writing)

 1. You have unresolved issues from childhood. You were abused, molested, beaten up, bullied, neglected, etc. Your parents didn't love you and you feel undeserving of love. Because of your past experiences you think that you deserve to be beaten, degraded, used and treated badly by others.

2. If you're a dominant person you're an egotistical maniac full of yourself. You're vain, self-admiring, arrogant, conceited, pompous and generally have too high a concept of yourself.

3. If you're a submissive person you're a doormat, a pushover, a weak and feeble person that doesn't know how to stand up for himself, have huge self-esteem issues and generally have too low a concept of yourself.

4. You're uncaring, unloving and immature. You are unsuitable for looking after children, elderly, people with learning difficulties or vulnerable populations in general.

5. Dominance is internalized hatred for women/men, etc.

6. Submission is internalized hatred for yourself.

7. Quite simply, there's something wrong with you. A healthy, normal person wouldn't like this kind of stuff.

8. You're incapable of professional responsibility and social justice. If you are dominant you'd want to dominate everybody around you and you'll be looking to abuse other people. If you're submissive, you'll submit to anybody and you won't have the strength of character to stand up for what is right.

9. The best way to get a submissive's attention is to start trying to dominate her in subtle or not so subtle ways from the start. No need to have an open and honest conversation about it first. Likewise, if you act all submissive and fragile you'll attract a quality dominant.


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katty111
 
 Age: 29
  Georgia