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Update March 12th 2014

It has been some months since we paid any attention to this site or our profile for several reasons. Recently we both reached the decision that we would retire from 24/7 ownership and management of a slave/s. We are and always have been a couple who take our responsibilities and duties as 'Owners' seriously and when those responsibilities and duties can not be upheld, our subject/s will suffer.

We may however in the future, afford our attention to a submissive/s who seek interaction on a more irregular footing.

For those who know us, or Knew our past slave/s and submissive/s and wish to correspond, or know more, we will remain as helpful as we can.

Update Sept 9th 2013

Life is never easy and always full of difficult decisions. Our ways may not suit everyone, but to amend ones principles, is to amend ones beliefs, is to belittle who and and what we are. This has now been understood and accepted, and what was destructed has now been repaired.

Update July 2013

As some will have learned through viewing the profile and journal of our slave, Teshunu, we are currently seeking a fit bi male, for Ma'am to inflict her deviance and cruelty upon.

Those interested should understand before making contact, we do not seek sissy's, have no time for molly coddling, or offer full time attention.

Merely a fit, preferably strong male who will be ridiculed, humiliated, be on the receiving end of Ma'am's hands, feet and deviant array of implements, whilst serving both Sir and Ma'am in whatever way we require. Exceptional submission and endurance may be rewarded with our acknowledgement and sometimes our slave.

Update Feb 2013

Should you wish to explore and learn more with regard what this Lifestyle has to offer, the opportunity may be offered to spend some time with us and our 24/7 female slave.

This may be a welcome chance to dominate a slave, learn submission alongside her or experience both sides of the coin. Further discussion on this is possible and open to the sensible, sane and genuine.

Update Jan 2013

She appeared from out of the blue, unexpected. A breath of fresh air, intelligent, experienced, and wanting to be owned by us. She now is.

She could teach a few, the meaning of this life.

15th July 2011: Strange as it seems, and indeed, it is very strange, we find ourselves in the same position as last year, having to create yet another repeat profile. Our last profile and the initial one are not visible to others and after notifying CM support several times, this time and the previous time without any success or even response we now create No 3.

For those who have yet to explore or meet us:-

We are indeed, what and who we say we are. A very unique Dom/Domme couple, neither switch nor submissive to each other nor others. That makes us a rarity. In addition, we have a very different ethos to many a Dominant, Master, Mistress, Owner, Mentor, and those who have had the fortune to enter our 'house' either in play, as owned, or trained for other Dominants, will know just how different we are.

We accept those who seek what we are, we become entrusted with the dreams and quests of submissives and slaves, and we care and protect those dreams and quests. We nurture, rather than use. We encourage rather than ridicule. We guide and direct rather than domineer. Yet we are strict and we are demanding, but we remain realists.

Between us, we have a collective forty plus years of involvement within this beautiful lifestyle. For many a year we afforded our attention to only females but decided early in 2010 to accept sub/sub - m/f couples.

Hopefully, having read thus far, people will accept we do not afford our attention to males, unless they are part of a sub/sub couple.

Our time is afforded to submissives who have the desire to explore all this 'Lifestyle' has to offer, be that when they can squeeze it in within their 'Vanilla' lives or within a more intense relationship, to those who merely seek help and guidance.

12/16/2013 6:00:15 AM: So much damage is being inflicted out there. More mental than physical. So much time wasted, so much exploration guided by the inadequate. When will they all learn, that Dominance is not about abuse of mind, body and soul. It is about care, protection, and thought. Learn first what will fulfill, and at least go someways to making someone complete, then protect that dream. If you can not live toward that ethos, then go and buy a blow-up doll which does not have a brain or heart. A blow-up doll will not need honesty, and far too many people can't even be honest with themselves, let alone be honest with someone else. Every submissive is a unique individual. This arena can include many activities and practices. Some are for some, but rarely are all for all. LEARN: CARE: PROTECT:

11/20/2013 6:54:40 AM: You really do have to laugh at the lengths some people will go, to try and con you. It does though still baffle us, and we are sure, always will exactly what someone gets out of all the spinning of lies and deceit. One can falsely profess this or boast that, portray false identity and even gender, knowing they will get found out at some time. Where can it possibly lead? What can they possibly achieve from it all? Are their real lives so inept, so empty? It is sad, indeed pitiful. Dishonesty is rife, not just with the fake profiles, but even with the real ones. The frequency of reports and testaments of careless and reckless people, who take charge of the exploration and experiences of submissives is astounding. The mental damages of such negligence are hard to heal and often irreparable. Yet with honesty, responsibility mixed with understanding, this 'Lifestyle' creates so much fulfillment. To all those who seek something on here or the other such websites ( and it is a two way requirement ) try this formula:- Honesty + care + responsibility. It works.

11/4/2013 8:37:55 AM: A certain female who promotes herself to be a lesbian submissive called lauren, is extremely proficient in wasting others time. First professing interest in becoming a subject of ours, then separately attempting to befriend our slave, with a very different story of who and what she is supposed to be. Beware of this person. We both doubt very much anything she says is true.

9/9/2013 2:56:02 AM: When resolve is needed, it is found. When understanding is required it is offered. When re-direction is a solution, it is employed. When value is evident it is considered. Through resolve, understanding, re-direction and consideration, the door which was closed is re-opened. Time will tell if we have all made the correct decisions.

8/23/2013 12:35:40 AM: When something comes to an end, irrespective of reason, it is often sad. Something has come to an end within our life, and it is sad. We are a decision making couple and sometimes we need to make a decision which hurts. A recent decision has been made, and it has hurt. Sometimes a decision we make, can not be understood, even when explained. It is because it can not be understood, which affirms it is the correct decision. Life nevertheless will move on, and we can only hope, something has been learned, which makes us stronger, wiser and better.

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