read this from another site and think this is what i want.

A Daddy Dom wants to be the center of your universe. He wants to know that no other person or thing holds the place in your life he does. He does not share, or compare. He has to have total power exchange, however this in not done like in a slave relationship. You needs are more important to him, than his own. He sees your dreams, and will do anything to help you achieve them. He sees in you more than you see in your self. He will push you when you need a push, and support you when you need support. His only goal, his only need, is to bask in the image of you, that he has created.

Some relay on thier Daddy's to structure thier days. Daddy will put you to bed at night, read you a story. Wake you in the morning. Talk with you about a list of goals to accomplish that day, make sure you are happy and all is well in your world. He literally does everything for you. He will give you a bath, dresses you, pick out your clothes and tells you what to eat and when. It is a total power exchange, where Daddy really does know best. It is not a power exchange that is harmful to either party. Quite the contrary. Daddy is always in full control, and a little girl loves it that way.