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	Update 4/17/22: I'm a semi-experienced sub and a potential aspiring switch. Sub is my comfort zone and I have to be in a very specific mood to dom. I've been fortunate enough to have had a handful of r/t sessions over the years focusing mostly on edging, sensory play, and anal play. Through those, I have also dabbled in cbt, bondage, strapon play, queening, spankings, orgasm control and denial, joi, cei, electrical play tens/violet wand, and a variety of roleplay scenarios. I have also done plenty of online service over webcam and through other roleplay plats. Humiliation, Degedation, Forced-bi, Scat, and Body Modification are all hard limits. It is worth noting that I am also a sub and not a slave. I'm willing to submit to my domme, explore different types of play, and push my boundaries provided that my limits are respected and that there is open communication between us. My soft limits are any and all types of play that would interfere with my job or cause a problem in my personal life. For example: I am completely opposed to engaging in chastity without being with that partner actively in rl. I am open to try it in person. I will also not engage in any type of service or play while at work. But I am open to subtle types of play while out with my partner. I would love to find a life partner with somewhat similar Ds interests. At the moment, I am single, never been married, and not dating anyone. I have no kids, but do have a conservative family, so I only like to play behind closed doors. I am also an avid gamer and run a D&D campaign in my free time.

4/6/2014 11:34:33 PM

I find the idea of "homework slaves" to be destructive. Not for the slave, but for the dominant. I have a Master's Degree, so I've been through my share of school. In my mind, the purpose of homework, although sometimes tedious, is to teach the student through interaction with the material. As a child I hated homework as well. And I guess it wasn't really until I started getting into the core classes of my Bachelor's degree that it began to be fun and interesting.

I guess the point of my rant is that everyone should be about the business of bettering themselves. That goes for outside of the BDSM realm too. There are far too many people throwing away their gifts and time. Then they complain that things are unfair. Having said that, everyone has different lives and opportunities. You should measure success according to your own goals and standards and not that of others.

...So yeah, go learn and be successful everyone!

2/28/2014 10:42:48 PM

Got pounded by a Strapon for the first time today courtesy of MistressJulz!

12/11/2013 11:35:14 PM

I had the good fortune of serving MistressJulz today!

10/21/2013 10:56:17 PM

I've started to see a lot of dommes saying that they will not do yahoo sessions because they are too easily recorded and blackmailed there.

If you are reading this and you really believe that a cam site is safer than yahoo or skype then you are sadly mistaken. There are several free software applications on the internet that can record the computer screen regardless of what is on it. That includes yahoo and skype, your cam on the internet, anything on the internet, anything off the internet, anything displayed on your computer.

9/11/2013 10:32:02 PM

I just started playing Red Light Center which is an adult MMO. If anyone wants to chat or play or anything on there, message me: BlackroseSub

8/17/2013 11:39:02 PM

I find the basic lack of trust in our society appalling. It seems like every domme requires some sort of errand before considering a new sub. I don't care for financial dommes, especially online ones but thats not really what I'm talking about here. I have been asked by many dommes to join additional personals sites that require cc information. I understand the idea of showing ownership to the people/site with which you have a rapport. But it seems that the days of proving ones worth over a period of time are gone. It would seem to me that fakes would be quickly weeded out by their diction in treating a domme with respect or surely by the first interactions via cam.

Perhaps I am blinded because I have never been in the domme's shoes. Perhaps my reasoning is sound to me because I am not THAT GUY. All that said I have met equally as many dommes who respect my feelings on this. I may not have served them at all because I failed to meet such requirements but they are cordial and I still show them respect either way.

Hopefully I can find a domme who sees the way I do.